Can you be friends with someone, who wants more than friendship?

Christa42

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no, cause they are always thinking about getting in your pants while your are having a converstation about how your day was. (omg did the mom actually say that?)
 

Ryujiki

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no, cause they are always thinking about getting in your pants while your are having a converstation about how your day was. (omg did the mom actually say that?)
Is not 100 % true cause not all the guys think/act like that.
 

Christa42

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who's talking about the guys? hahahahahaha, just kidding. i know what you mean. so It's a gray area and really depends upon the situation. thank god i am happily married and do not have to worry about all of this. I have a wonderful husband who loves me and so glad i am not dating. its hard.
 

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yea, but, personally, i think its harder if they seriously like you. i have a friend and we exchange silly love notes:rolleyes::laugh3:
 

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It's quite difficult to be friends with someone who wants more than a friendship simply because you probably don't feel comfortable anymore when you're with him. It did happen to me and I tried to do my best to keep our friendship, but things got totally out of hand :(

And yes, for some unknown reason [most] guys don't seem to get the message when you tell them in a polite way that you only want to be friends. Either they don't get it or they don't want to.
 
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