A piece of advice, please.

Poky · 21-05-2012, 04:32 PM

Hey guys. I have a little problem and I'd like to ask you, because now I can't contact to my friend.

At Saturday I have a party after exams with schoolmates. Some guys went away earlier, because they were a bit blazzed. Then my friends took my phone and texted with one mate (for example Tom). I like him and he was my partner during school party, but only as a friend. They wrote some stupid texts that I'm in love, I want something more at next time. He didn't know my phone number, but next day he asked someone about it and he know it was from my phone. Then he wrote to my other friend, one of the "writers" and said that he likes me as a friend, but nothing more etc. He also thinks now, that I organised this meeting to meet him and I'm in love. What makes me more mad is fact that one of this "writers" - my best friend doesn't see any problem with this.

And my question - what should I do know? Text him and said that it wasn't me or just ignore, because we end school and maybe don't meet soon? I've just feel ashamed. :/

Cobalt · 21-05-2012, 05:17 PM

It's kinda awkward because if you just explain things there's a possible case of him not believing you and thinking it's an excuse

Gaaaaaaah I dunno but I wish you luck with this! Also not impressed with your friends but they probably think "it's just a joke, what's the harm?"

Brent · 21-05-2012, 05:35 PM

That's awkward.

I'd just tell him the truth. I've come to realize that most people respect that, and if anything, he'll be flattered. If he treats it all awkwardly and self-indulgently, then is that someone you'd really be interested in anyway?

NumbersGirl · 21-05-2012, 05:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Brent;5302880
That's awkward.

I'd just tell him the truth. I've come to realize that most people respect that, and if anything, he'll be flattered. If he treats it all awkwardly and self-indulgently, then is that someone you'd really be interested in anyway?

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Poky · 21-05-2012, 05:56 PM

There was a moment when I think that maybe we can try something more. But now, no. He tried to be kind and text to one of the "writers" that he feel a bit weird about it and don't know what to think. Next problem is that I really don't know what they wrote, because box was empty. Maybe he was embarassed becasuse of sexual proposals

.

Thank you for help. I think I'll try to tell him the truth. Whatever he thinks now, maybe I'll feel mor comfortable.

Thanks!

21-05-2012, 04:32 PM	#1
Poky Coldplayer Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 785 My Mood: Gender: Country: Seen CP: 1 times Fav. CP album: AROBTTH Fav. CP member: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 23 Thanked 49 Times in 23 Posts	A piece of advice, please. Hey guys. I have a little problem and I'd like to ask you, because now I can't contact to my friend. At Saturday I have a party after exams with schoolmates. Some guys went away earlier, because they were a bit blazzed. Then my friends took my phone and texted with one mate (for example Tom). I like him and he was my partner during school party, but only as a friend. They wrote some stupid texts that I'm in love, I want something more at next time. He didn't know my phone number, but next day he asked someone about it and he know it was from my phone. Then he wrote to my other friend, one of the "writers" and said that he likes me as a friend, but nothing more etc. He also thinks now, that I organised this meeting to meet him and I'm in love. What makes me more mad is fact that one of this "writers" - my best friend doesn't see any problem with this. And my question - what should I do know? Text him and said that it wasn't me or just ignore, because we end school and maybe don't meet soon? I've just feel ashamed. :/

21-05-2012, 05:35 PM	#3
Brent Rudy Join Date: May 2011 Posts: 12,102 My Mood: Location: St. Louis, MO Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 204 Thanked 371 Times in 231 Posts	That's awkward. I'd just tell him the truth. I've come to realize that most people respect that, and if anything, he'll be flattered. If he treats it all awkwardly and self-indulgently, then is that someone you'd really be interested in anyway? __________________ 2-3-2003 - St. Louis, MO - 5-6-2005 - Chicago, IL - 9-17-2005 - St. Louis, MO - 2-26-2006 - Dallas, TX - 3-31-2006 - Chicago, IL - 6-23-2008 - New York City (MSG!) - 11-13-2008 - Kansas City, MO - 7-24-2009 - St. Louis, MO - 8-5-2011 - LOLLAPALOOZA (Chicago, IL) 6-22-2012 - Dallas, TX 7-28-2012 - Chicago, IL Quote: Originally Posted by Wyrd Brent "A name normaly given to the most caring, warm people in the world, these people will make you feel beautiful and always keep you smiling. Sexy 'almost mighty fine' beasts. Its near imposible to not fall in love with a Brent."

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NumbersGirl sooner or later Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 9,487 Country: Fav. CP song: I Ramsterdam Atrouble Fav. CP member: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 65 Thanked 179 Times in 98 Posts	Quote: Originally Posted by Brent;5302880 That's awkward. I'd just tell him the truth. I've come to realize that most people respect that, and if anything, he'll be flattered. If he treats it all awkwardly and self-indulgently, then is that someone you'd really be interested in anyway? this __________________ there is no Carrie, only Zuul... the mongrel cat with the crazy-kitten smile

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21-05-2012, 05:17 PM	#2
Cobalt OH SUCH THE SHAME! Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 18,301 My Mood: Location: Melbourne, Australia Gender: Country: Chat posts: 10 Thanks given: 159 Thanked 173 Times in 120 Posts	It's kinda awkward because if you just explain things there's a possible case of him not believing you and thinking it's an excuse Gaaaaaaah I dunno but I wish you luck with this! Also not impressed with your friends but they probably think "it's just a joke, what's the harm?"

21-05-2012, 05:56 PM	#5
Poky Coldplayer Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 785 My Mood: Gender: Country: Seen CP: 1 times Fav. CP album: AROBTTH Fav. CP member: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 23 Thanked 49 Times in 23 Posts	There was a moment when I think that maybe we can try something more. But now, no. He tried to be kind and text to one of the "writers" that he feel a bit weird about it and don't know what to think. Next problem is that I really don't know what they wrote, because box was empty. Maybe he was embarassed becasuse of sexual proposals . Thank you for help. I think I'll try to tell him the truth. Whatever he thinks now, maybe I'll feel mor comfortable. Thanks!