How an amazing day suddenly turned bad...

Fix42YellowClocks · 10-09-2011, 01:07 AM

I'll try to make this as short as possible. There's this girl I met after coming to college who I really like. I wrote some love poems for her but my roommates found out and told her because she knows us all. And then today I was so excited after finally finding out the tracklist (I was looking forward to this more than Paradise even). And I posted on Fb how happy I was, I just happened to be wearing my Coldplay shirt today and I framed a color print out of the album title and back cover. She was in our room and asked what it was and she knew it was Coldplay without me even saying anything. With me sitting like three feet away, no music in or anything, she whispers to her friend "He likes COlDPLAY...how can he expect me to love or even LIKE him?" And. Now I just don't know what to think or how I should react to this. I feel hearbroekn though. It seems so immature and unfair for her to judge me like that for liking the best band in the world. :'(

Juanma · 10-09-2011, 01:10 AM

oh men, shes clearly not worth it!

I mean it.

Empily · 10-09-2011, 01:34 AM

If she's THAT much of a douche about what kind of music you like, then she must not be worth it.

MrLick · 10-09-2011, 01:38 AM

She's not the right one bro, you'll find someone who likes your music or at least tolerates it without being so stuck up.

Usually for an extra fee, hookers will enjoy your favorite music too.

Twisted mind · 10-09-2011, 01:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Fix42YellowClocks;4965931
It seems so immature and unfair for her to judge me like that for liking the best band in the world. :'(

You got your answer about that person right there. Don't waste your time on her.
And I agree with what the other guys said.

juanif94 · 10-09-2011, 01:50 AM

Just find another woman who respects you as you are! She clearly doesn't worth it!

Megalomania · 10-09-2011, 01:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Emp3;4966165
If she's THAT much of a douche about what kind of music you like, then she must not be worth it.

yup, agreed.

she's not worth your time if she won't even respect what music you like.

Violet · 10-09-2011, 02:35 AM

What a stuck-up bitch.

No, seriously. What everyone is saying is true. If she's really going to judge you based on something stupid like that, then she's not worth any more of your time. You'll find someone much better than her in due time.

Italian Plastic · 10-09-2011, 02:45 AM

might want to make sure if she was joking or not

Reilly · 10-09-2011, 02:49 AM

I hate to be harsh but from the sounds of it there's o' plenty of social barriers you will have to break through before actually having a girlfriend.

Well, if something like this annoys you, definitely.

MrLick · 10-09-2011, 03:09 AM

Quote:
Originally Posted by Reilly;4966359
I hate to be harsh but from the sounds of it there's o' plenty of social barriers you will have to break through before actually having a girlfriend.

Well, if something like this annoys you, definitely.

He'll always have internet porn.

Fix42YellowClocks · 10-09-2011, 04:03 AM

Thanks to all of you for taking time to consider my situation. For your kind words and honesty as well. You're right after all, it's really not worth it. :/ I'll have to move on somehow. Maybe Paradise will give me something to try to keep my mind off it for awhile.

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Originally Posted by Italian Plastic;4966350
might want to make sure if she was joking or not

She wasn't. I looked at her right after she said that and she had that face of

"oops, should've waited to say that when he wasn't around."

Quote:
Originally Posted by Reilly;4966359
I hate to be harsh but from the sounds of it there's o' plenty of social barriers you will have to break through before actually having a girlfriend.
Well, if something like this annoys you, definitely.

I don't understand sir. What do you mean? Please clarify. And. Wouldn't you feel bad if someone didn't even give you a chance because of the music you listen to? Maybe it's just me. idk. But I know people can be Nazis or gang members or robbers or rapists and they still have relationships. But, you know, I went too far with openly liking Coldplay's music didn't I? That's probably a bit much in retrospect.

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Originally Posted by MrLick;4966423
He'll always have internet porn.

Mean! But funny. haha

NumbersGirl · 10-09-2011, 04:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Fix42YellowClocks;4966537
She wasn't. I looked at her right after she said that and she had that face of "oops, should've waited to say that when he wasn't around."

Wow, that sucks.

If she's going to poke fun at you like that, just move on.

Brent · 10-09-2011, 05:21 AM

Are you kidding?

What a bitch! God. That pisses me off.

Fix42YellowClocks · 10-09-2011, 05:42 AM

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Originally Posted by NumbersGirl;4966565
Wow, that sucks.

If she's going to poke fun at you like that, just move on.

Yeah. How is being a Coldplay fan so bad?? And I mean she listens to like Lil Wayne's music and other rap stuff all the time and I don't dislike her for that even though I don't like her choice in music at all honestly.

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Originally Posted by Baw8cc;4966626
Are you kidding?

What a bitch! God. That pisses me off.

No sir. And

I expected people here at college to be, I don't know. Less petty and judgmental than in hs. Seems like I was very mistaken.

10-09-2011, 01:07 AM	#1
Fix42YellowClocks Coldplayer Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 427 My Mood: Location: New York Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	How an amazing day suddenly turned bad... I'll try to make this as short as possible. There's this girl I met after coming to college who I really like. I wrote some love poems for her but my roommates found out and told her because she knows us all. And then today I was so excited after finally finding out the tracklist (I was looking forward to this more than Paradise even). And I posted on Fb how happy I was, I just happened to be wearing my Coldplay shirt today and I framed a color print out of the album title and back cover. She was in our room and asked what it was and she knew it was Coldplay without me even saying anything. With me sitting like three feet away, no music in or anything, she whispers to her friend "He likes COlDPLAY...how can he expect me to love or even LIKE him?" And. Now I just don't know what to think or how I should react to this. I feel hearbroekn though. It seems so immature and unfair for her to judge me like that for liking the best band in the world. :'( __________________ Quote: Originally Posted by Our Escape;5118238 1.Charlie Brown 2. Car Kids, 3. Car Kids II, 4. Car Kids (Live), 5. Car Kids (Acoustic), 6. Car Kids III: Return/Revenge of the Car Kids, 7. Car Kids: The White Duke Remix, Car Kids+ (feat. Jay-Z), 8. Car Kids I + II + III:Return/Revenge of the Car Kids (MEGA TRACK), 9. Car Kids (Acapella w/ Will), 10. Car Kids (Radiohead Cover) , 11. Car Kids+- (Radiohead Cover feat. Jay-Z), 12. The Great Expectations of Tomorrow's Wedding Bells of Don Quixote

10-09-2011, 01:10 AM	#2
Juanma In my Place Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 7,459 My Mood: Location: Uruguay Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 3 Thanked 19 Times in 17 Posts	oh men, shes clearly not worth it! I mean it. __________________ COLDPLAY LIVE BUENOS AIRES 26 FEB 2010 COLDPLAY LIVE RIO DE JANEIRO 28 FEB 2010 www.twitter.com/Coldplayvideo

10-09-2011, 01:38 AM	#4
MrLick No. Join Date: Nov 2003 Posts: 25,994 My Mood: Location: Spokane. Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 55 Thanked 35 Times in 18 Posts	She's not the right one bro, you'll find someone who likes your music or at least tolerates it without being so stuck up. Usually for an extra fee, hookers will enjoy your favorite music too. __________________ Even after all this time, the Sun never says to the Earth: "You owe me". Look at what happens with a love like that. It lights the whole sky.

10-09-2011, 01:46 AM	#5
Twisted mind TICKLE TICKLE Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 12,107 Location: in FUCKLAND Chat posts: 33 Thanks given: 418 Thanked 1,034 Times in 445 Posts	Quote: Originally Posted by Fix42YellowClocks;4965931 It seems so immature and unfair for her to judge me like that for liking the best band in the world. :'( You got your answer about that person right there. Don't waste your time on her. And I agree with what the other guys said. __________________ ~ DeviantArt ~ Coldplay Fanart thread Cologne 12.9.2008 Düsseldorf 27.8.2009 Wembley 19.9.2009 Cologne 15.12.2011 Cologne 4.9.2012 Leipzig 14.9.2012 Hannover 22.9.2012

10-09-2011, 01:50 AM	#6
juanif94 Coldplayer Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 6,981 Location: Potomac, MD, United States Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 5 Thanked 10 Times in 9 Posts	Just find another woman who respects you as you are! She clearly doesn't worth it! __________________ Oasis - 3.5.09 - Buenos Aires, Argentina Coldplay - 26.2.10 - Buenos Aires, Argentina Guns N Roses - 18.3.10 - Montevideo, Uruguay Beady Eye - 2.11.11 - Montevideo, Uruguay Kasabian - 20.3.12 - Washington D.C, USA Noel Gallagher's High Flying Birds - 28.3.12 - Washington D.C, USA Arctic Monkeys & The Black Keys - 18.5.12 - Columbia, MD Keane - 14.6.12 - N. Bethesda, USA Coldplay - 9.7.12 - Washington D.C, USA

10-09-2011, 01:34 AM	#3
Empily RΣ√öLûτìσÑ Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 38,426 My Mood: Location: Somewhere only we know >:D Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 66 Thanked 100 Times in 56 Posts	If she's THAT much of a douche about what kind of music you like, then she must not be worth it.

10-09-2011, 01:50 AM	#7
Megalomania Reichenbach Hero Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 51,742 My Mood: Location: 221b Baker Street Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 25 Thanked 31 Times in 23 Posts	Quote: Originally Posted by Emp3;4966165 If she's THAT much of a douche about what kind of music you like, then she must not be worth it. yup, agreed. she's not worth your time if she won't even respect what music you like. __________________ Do you know the big problem with a disguise, Mr. Holmes? However hard you try, it's always a self-portrait. You think I'm a vicar with a bleeding face? No, I think you're damaged, delusional and believe in a higher power. In your case it's yourself. ♥tumblr ♥twitter

10-09-2011, 02:35 AM	#8
Violet 2:3 Life Round Here Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 18,747 My Mood: Location: Ripper Street Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 99 Thanked 145 Times in 112 Posts	What a stuck-up bitch. No, seriously. What everyone is saying is true. If she's really going to judge you based on something stupid like that, then she's not worth any more of your time. You'll find someone much better than her in due time. __________________ Facebook \| Twitter \| Last \| Tumblr Quote: Originally Posted by Showbiz;4807100 A few people are actually Wolstenfluent. I believe Violet may be one of the lucky few born with this gift.

10-09-2011, 02:45 AM	#9
Italian Plastic 'til infinity Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 11,154 Country: Chat posts: 2 Thanks given: 359 Thanked 207 Times in 112 Posts	might want to make sure if she was joking or not __________________ .

10-09-2011, 02:49 AM	#10
Reilly District 9er Badazz!11111 Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 35,978 Chat posts: 61 Thanks given: 44 Thanked 336 Times in 192 Posts	I hate to be harsh but from the sounds of it there's o' plenty of social barriers you will have to break through before actually having a girlfriend. Well, if something like this annoys you, definitely. __________________ This door... ...needs some WD-40. Quote: Originally Posted by Fix42YellowClocks I cannot argue my point of the seemingly conflicting idea of why I have the right to argue people shouldn't be allowed to tell Coldplay to stop expressing themselves without a fundamental argument to the freedoms we enjoy. Has anyone really been far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like?

10-09-2011, 03:09 AM	#11
MrLick No. Join Date: Nov 2003 Posts: 25,994 My Mood: Location: Spokane. Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 55 Thanked 35 Times in 18 Posts	Quote: Originally Posted by Reilly;4966359 I hate to be harsh but from the sounds of it there's o' plenty of social barriers you will have to break through before actually having a girlfriend. Well, if something like this annoys you, definitely. He'll always have internet porn. __________________ Even after all this time, the Sun never says to the Earth: "You owe me". Look at what happens with a love like that. It lights the whole sky.

10-09-2011, 04:03 AM	#12
Fix42YellowClocks Coldplayer Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 427 My Mood: Location: New York Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Thanks to all of you for taking time to consider my situation. For your kind words and honesty as well. You're right after all, it's really not worth it. :/ I'll have to move on somehow. Maybe Paradise will give me something to try to keep my mind off it for awhile. Quote: Originally Posted by Italian Plastic;4966350 might want to make sure if she was joking or not She wasn't. I looked at her right after she said that and she had that face of "oops, should've waited to say that when he wasn't around." Quote: Originally Posted by Reilly;4966359 I hate to be harsh but from the sounds of it there's o' plenty of social barriers you will have to break through before actually having a girlfriend. Well, if something like this annoys you, definitely. I don't understand sir. What do you mean? Please clarify. And. Wouldn't you feel bad if someone didn't even give you a chance because of the music you listen to? Maybe it's just me. idk. But I know people can be Nazis or gang members or robbers or rapists and they still have relationships. But, you know, I went too far with openly liking Coldplay's music didn't I? That's probably a bit much in retrospect. Quote: Originally Posted by MrLick;4966423 He'll always have internet porn. Mean! But funny. haha __________________ Quote: Originally Posted by Our Escape;5118238 1.Charlie Brown 2. Car Kids, 3. Car Kids II, 4. Car Kids (Live), 5. Car Kids (Acoustic), 6. Car Kids III: Return/Revenge of the Car Kids, 7. Car Kids: The White Duke Remix, Car Kids+ (feat. Jay-Z), 8. Car Kids I + II + III:Return/Revenge of the Car Kids (MEGA TRACK), 9. Car Kids (Acapella w/ Will), 10. Car Kids (Radiohead Cover) , 11. Car Kids+- (Radiohead Cover feat. Jay-Z), 12. The Great Expectations of Tomorrow's Wedding Bells of Don Quixote

10-09-2011, 04:15 AM	#13
NumbersGirl sooner or later Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 9,486 Country: Fav. CP song: I Ramsterdam Atrouble Fav. CP member: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 65 Thanked 179 Times in 98 Posts	Quote: Originally Posted by Fix42YellowClocks;4966537 She wasn't. I looked at her right after she said that and she had that face of "oops, should've waited to say that when he wasn't around." Wow, that sucks. If she's going to poke fun at you like that, just move on. __________________ there is no Carrie, only Zuul... the mongrel cat with the crazy-kitten smile

10-09-2011, 05:21 AM	#14
Brent Rudy Join Date: May 2011 Posts: 12,102 My Mood: Location: St. Louis, MO Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 204 Thanked 371 Times in 231 Posts	Are you kidding? What a bitch! God. That pisses me off. __________________ 2-3-2003 - St. Louis, MO - 5-6-2005 - Chicago, IL - 9-17-2005 - St. Louis, MO - 2-26-2006 - Dallas, TX - 3-31-2006 - Chicago, IL - 6-23-2008 - New York City (MSG!) - 11-13-2008 - Kansas City, MO - 7-24-2009 - St. Louis, MO - 8-5-2011 - LOLLAPALOOZA (Chicago, IL) 6-22-2012 - Dallas, TX 7-28-2012 - Chicago, IL Quote: Originally Posted by Wyrd Brent "A name normaly given to the most caring, warm people in the world, these people will make you feel beautiful and always keep you smiling. Sexy 'almost mighty fine' beasts. Its near imposible to not fall in love with a Brent."

10-09-2011, 05:42 AM	#15
Fix42YellowClocks Coldplayer Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 427 My Mood: Location: New York Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Quote: Originally Posted by NumbersGirl;4966565 Wow, that sucks. If she's going to poke fun at you like that, just move on. Yeah. How is being a Coldplay fan so bad?? And I mean she listens to like Lil Wayne's music and other rap stuff all the time and I don't dislike her for that even though I don't like her choice in music at all honestly. Quote: Originally Posted by Baw8cc;4966626 Are you kidding? What a bitch! God. That pisses me off. No sir. And I expected people here at college to be, I don't know. Less petty and judgmental than in hs. Seems like I was very mistaken. __________________ Quote: Originally Posted by Our Escape;5118238 1.Charlie Brown 2. Car Kids, 3. Car Kids II, 4. Car Kids (Live), 5. Car Kids (Acoustic), 6. Car Kids III: Return/Revenge of the Car Kids, 7. Car Kids: The White Duke Remix, Car Kids+ (feat. Jay-Z), 8. Car Kids I + II + III:Return/Revenge of the Car Kids (MEGA TRACK), 9. Car Kids (Acapella w/ Will), 10. Car Kids (Radiohead Cover) , 11. Car Kids+- (Radiohead Cover feat. Jay-Z), 12. The Great Expectations of Tomorrow's Wedding Bells of Don Quixote

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