Scared of the future?

i'maveryneatMonster.' · 11-04-2011, 03:09 AM

Are you? Getting a job, finishing college, getting married, having children, anything that comes with the future.
Does that scare you?

Getting married scares the shit out of me.

Zeya · 11-04-2011, 03:16 AM

lol Alexa, why are you scared of getting married?

Being old is scary. Also, I'm scared that I'll some day be too complacent to do anything else in my life except work.

Lore · 11-04-2011, 03:27 AM

I think I'll never find someone to spend my life with

which sucks because I really want to find someone, have a son, etc. Also I'm scared I won't have time or money to do all the things I want to do (travel, learn more, etc)

i'maveryneatMonster.' · 11-04-2011, 03:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Zeya;4760331
lol Alexa, why are you scared of getting married?

Being old is scary. Also, I'm scared that I'll some day be too complacent to do anything else in my life except work.

LOL Fariboo, why are you scared of being old?

I think it's a huge deal, such a big commitment there and so many things involved, and I tend to ruin good things in life so I don't think I'd be able to deal with that.

Violet · 11-04-2011, 03:33 AM

I'm actually more afraid of NOT getting a job at this point, given the cuts being made to fine arts programs. My friend's mom got fired due to this very thing.

i'maveryneatMonster.' · 11-04-2011, 03:40 AM

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Originally Posted by violetsparks;4760336
I'm actually more afraid of NOT getting a job at this point, given the cuts being made to fine arts programs. My friend's mom got fired due to this very thing.

What do you do exactly?

Violet · 11-04-2011, 03:49 AM

I'm a music education major. When I get my degree, I hope to be a band director.

the_gloaming09 · 11-04-2011, 03:50 AM

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Originally Posted by i'maveryneatMonster.';4760329
Are you? Getting a job, finishing college, getting married, having children, anything that comes with the future.
Does that scare you?

Getting married scares the shit out of me.

I'm very scared about the future. I think I'm headed in the right path in terms of a job, just because I'm doing an internship I love and I think it's going to lead to a job.

What I'm most afraid of is I'm afraid that I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life, especially since I don't have a GF now or anything. I sort of wish that I was progressing with that, but it's not so.... well at least right now.

I'm also scared of the future in the sense that I'm so used to things being the way they are that I'm afraid of things changing, but the paradox of that is that I want things to be different and experience new things.

Violet · 11-04-2011, 03:53 AM

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Originally Posted by the_gloaming09;4760339

What I'm most afraid of is I'm afraid that I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life, especially since I don't have a GF now or anything. I sort of wish that I was progressing with that, but it's not so.... well at least right now.

I'm also scared of the future in the sense that I'm so used to things being the way they are that I'm afraid of things changing, but the paradox of that is that I want things to be different and experience new things.

Dude. It's like you read my mind.

the_gloaming09 · 11-04-2011, 03:54 AM

woah

Lore · 11-04-2011, 03:56 AM

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Originally Posted by violetsparks;4760340
Dude. It's like you read my mind.

same here

i'maveryneatMonster.' · 11-04-2011, 03:57 AM

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Originally Posted by violetsparks;4760338
I'm a music education major. When I get my degree, I hope to be a band director.

I remember that back when I was 14 years old I was pretty much obsessed with studying music and playing in an orchestra (violin). My mom pretty much killed it by telling me what you commented.

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Originally Posted by the_gloaming09;4760339
I'm also scared of the future in the sense that I'm so used to things being the way they are that I'm afraid of things changing, but the paradox of that is that I want things to be different and experience new things.

Haha, I think about that a lot.
Thinking about how you go from being a kid to being a parent, then a grandparent makes me feel so much panic x_x.

the_gloaming09 · 11-04-2011, 04:02 AM

yeah it's scary to think of getting older and being a parent (though at this point I dunno If I want to). Like many times I imagine what it must've been like to be in my parents shoes at this age, and also to see how things are different from then to how they are now

Josh42 · 11-04-2011, 04:11 AM

The future scares the fuck out of me.

Not nearly as much as the present, however.

the_gloaming09 · 11-04-2011, 04:13 AM

why?

11-04-2011, 03:09 AM	#1
i'maveryneatMonster.' Torsades de pointes Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 14,947 Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 18 Thanked 14 Times in 8 Posts	Scared of the future? Are you? Getting a job, finishing college, getting married, having children, anything that comes with the future. Does that scare you? Getting married scares the shit out of me. __________________ Lauren <3 :wh!p: & Crests <3 8/8, 0/2. Quote: Originally Posted by Karen6321;4824747 My life is a c.unt!

11-04-2011, 03:16 AM	#2
Zeya Not a true fan Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 3,661 Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 1 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post	lol Alexa, why are you scared of getting married? Being old is scary. Also, I'm scared that I'll some day be too complacent to do anything else in my life except work. __________________ A pig in a cage on antibiotics.

11-04-2011, 03:29 AM	#4
i'maveryneatMonster.' Torsades de pointes Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 14,947 Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 18 Thanked 14 Times in 8 Posts	Quote: Originally Posted by Zeya;4760331 lol Alexa, why are you scared of getting married? Being old is scary. Also, I'm scared that I'll some day be too complacent to do anything else in my life except work. LOL Fariboo, why are you scared of being old? I think it's a huge deal, such a big commitment there and so many things involved, and I tend to ruin good things in life so I don't think I'd be able to deal with that. __________________ Lauren <3 :wh!p: & Crests <3 8/8, 0/2. Quote: Originally Posted by Karen6321;4824747 My life is a c.unt!

11-04-2011, 03:33 AM	#5
Violet 2:3 Life Round Here Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 18,749 My Mood: Location: Ripper Street Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 99 Thanked 145 Times in 112 Posts	I'm actually more afraid of NOT getting a job at this point, given the cuts being made to fine arts programs. My friend's mom got fired due to this very thing. __________________ Facebook \| Twitter \| Last \| Tumblr Quote: Originally Posted by Showbiz;4807100 A few people are actually Wolstenfluent. I believe Violet may be one of the lucky few born with this gift.

11-04-2011, 03:40 AM	#6
i'maveryneatMonster.' Torsades de pointes Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 14,947 Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 18 Thanked 14 Times in 8 Posts	Quote: Originally Posted by violetsparks;4760336 I'm actually more afraid of NOT getting a job at this point, given the cuts being made to fine arts programs. My friend's mom got fired due to this very thing. What do you do exactly? __________________ Lauren <3 :wh!p: & Crests <3 8/8, 0/2. Quote: Originally Posted by Karen6321;4824747 My life is a c.unt!

11-04-2011, 03:27 AM	#3
Lore Coldplayer Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 53,460 My Mood: Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 8 Thanked 31 Times in 28 Posts	I think I'll never find someone to spend my life with which sucks because I really want to find someone, have a son, etc. Also I'm scared I won't have time or money to do all the things I want to do (travel, learn more, etc)

11-04-2011, 03:49 AM	#7
Violet 2:3 Life Round Here Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 18,749 My Mood: Location: Ripper Street Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 99 Thanked 145 Times in 112 Posts	I'm a music education major. When I get my degree, I hope to be a band director. __________________ Facebook \| Twitter \| Last \| Tumblr Quote: Originally Posted by Showbiz;4807100 A few people are actually Wolstenfluent. I believe Violet may be one of the lucky few born with this gift.

11-04-2011, 03:50 AM	#8
the_gloaming09 Feral Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 11,936 My Mood: Location: NY Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 39 Thanked 38 Times in 26 Posts	Quote: Originally Posted by i'maveryneatMonster.';4760329 Are you? Getting a job, finishing college, getting married, having children, anything that comes with the future. Does that scare you? Getting married scares the shit out of me. I'm very scared about the future. I think I'm headed in the right path in terms of a job, just because I'm doing an internship I love and I think it's going to lead to a job. What I'm most afraid of is I'm afraid that I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life, especially since I don't have a GF now or anything. I sort of wish that I was progressing with that, but it's not so.... well at least right now. I'm also scared of the future in the sense that I'm so used to things being the way they are that I'm afraid of things changing, but the paradox of that is that I want things to be different and experience new things. __________________ I'm not yours. You're not mine. That's just fine. Please. Don't. Judge. My Blog Facebook Twitter

11-04-2011, 03:53 AM	#9
Violet 2:3 Life Round Here Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 18,749 My Mood: Location: Ripper Street Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 99 Thanked 145 Times in 112 Posts	Quote: Originally Posted by the_gloaming09;4760339 What I'm most afraid of is I'm afraid that I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life, especially since I don't have a GF now or anything. I sort of wish that I was progressing with that, but it's not so.... well at least right now. I'm also scared of the future in the sense that I'm so used to things being the way they are that I'm afraid of things changing, but the paradox of that is that I want things to be different and experience new things. Dude. It's like you read my mind. __________________ Facebook \| Twitter \| Last \| Tumblr Quote: Originally Posted by Showbiz;4807100 A few people are actually Wolstenfluent. I believe Violet may be one of the lucky few born with this gift.

11-04-2011, 03:54 AM	#10
the_gloaming09 Feral Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 11,936 My Mood: Location: NY Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 39 Thanked 38 Times in 26 Posts	woah __________________ I'm not yours. You're not mine. That's just fine. Please. Don't. Judge. My Blog Facebook Twitter

11-04-2011, 03:56 AM	#11
Lore Coldplayer Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 53,460 My Mood: Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 8 Thanked 31 Times in 28 Posts	Quote: Originally Posted by violetsparks;4760340 Dude. It's like you read my mind. same here

11-04-2011, 03:57 AM	#12
i'maveryneatMonster.' Torsades de pointes Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 14,947 Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 18 Thanked 14 Times in 8 Posts	Quote: Originally Posted by violetsparks;4760338 I'm a music education major. When I get my degree, I hope to be a band director. I remember that back when I was 14 years old I was pretty much obsessed with studying music and playing in an orchestra (violin). My mom pretty much killed it by telling me what you commented. Quote: Originally Posted by the_gloaming09;4760339 I'm also scared of the future in the sense that I'm so used to things being the way they are that I'm afraid of things changing, but the paradox of that is that I want things to be different and experience new things. Haha, I think about that a lot. Thinking about how you go from being a kid to being a parent, then a grandparent makes me feel so much panic x_x. __________________ Lauren <3 :wh!p: & Crests <3 8/8, 0/2. Quote: Originally Posted by Karen6321;4824747 My life is a c.unt!

11-04-2011, 04:02 AM	#13
the_gloaming09 Feral Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 11,936 My Mood: Location: NY Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 39 Thanked 38 Times in 26 Posts	yeah it's scary to think of getting older and being a parent (though at this point I dunno If I want to). Like many times I imagine what it must've been like to be in my parents shoes at this age, and also to see how things are different from then to how they are now __________________ I'm not yours. You're not mine. That's just fine. Please. Don't. Judge. My Blog Facebook Twitter

11-04-2011, 04:11 AM	#14
Josh42 hysterical and useless Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 11,093 My Mood: Location: buy a one way ticket, get me out of here Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 4 Times in 4 Posts	The future scares the fuck out of me. Not nearly as much as the present, however. __________________ face + last t’hauria de dir el que vols sentir hauria de fer el que tothom espera de mi però de sobte el sol perfora un gran núvol i la tarda esclata com si fos un matí

11-04-2011, 04:13 AM	#15
the_gloaming09 Feral Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 11,936 My Mood: Location: NY Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 39 Thanked 38 Times in 26 Posts	why? __________________ I'm not yours. You're not mine. That's just fine. Please. Don't. Judge. My Blog Facebook Twitter

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