I've got another (serious) question

Gitta Rensolo · 28-04-2010, 08:56 PM

If a good good goood gooood friend suddenly is in a similar problematic situation like you've been for some months and she wants you to care for her and to visit her although you really have to study for this main problem in your life and you have the impression that she didn't really care that much for it when you came in the same situation would you feel guilty of not caring so much for her at that point?

the question is:

Does anybody get what I mean?

2372 · 28-04-2010, 08:57 PM

Megalomania · 28-04-2010, 08:57 PM

Yes, and I'd be frustrated too

pickle · 28-04-2010, 08:57 PM

Nope.

William · 28-04-2010, 08:59 PM

Just tell your friend why you can't, or just help each other since you have the same problem?

Empily · 28-04-2010, 09:01 PM

Erm maybe

are you saying your goood friend is an attention seeker about it?

2372 · 28-04-2010, 09:02 PM

Gitta Rensolo · 28-04-2010, 09:02 PM

I told her that I really can't visit her right now and I know she is kind of mad at me now....

well, I want to help her but I am afraid, because the things I would tell her are the things she doesn't want to hear from a best-friend....those advices would be the same like my father did some months ago....I hated them, but now I know he was right

pickle · 28-04-2010, 09:03 PM

I think John needs a hug.

an angel · 28-04-2010, 09:03 PM

^You're not funny.
edit: at 2372

Gitta Rensolo · 28-04-2010, 09:03 PM

Quote:
Originally Posted by Emp3;4138156
Erm maybe

are you saying your goood friend is an attention seeker about it?

In some way yes....but I don't really want to think like that, because everyone is different

Empily · 28-04-2010, 09:04 PM

Is it about a guy?

pickle · 28-04-2010, 09:05 PM

I think I'm getting your problem.

She sounds like she's being a little bit selfish about the situation lol.

2372 · 28-04-2010, 09:05 PM

.

pickle · 28-04-2010, 09:05 PM

I don't think she'll be studying about a guy...

?

28-04-2010, 08:56 PM	#1
Gitta Rensolo -1 Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 44,317 My Mood: Location: sleeping in a sidewalk with a Burger King crown Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 4 Times in 4 Posts	I've got another (serious) question If a good good goood gooood friend suddenly is in a similar problematic situation like you've been for some months and she wants you to care for her and to visit her although you really have to study for this main problem in your life and you have the impression that she didn't really care that much for it when you came in the same situation would you feel guilty of not caring so much for her at that point? the question is: Does anybody get what I mean? __________________ keine Zeit, in Echtzeit Die Musik ist aus und ist immernoch da

28-04-2010, 08:57 PM	#3
Megalomania Reichenbach Hero Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 51,744 My Mood: Location: 221b Baker Street Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 25 Thanked 31 Times in 23 Posts	Yes, and I'd be frustrated too __________________ Do you know the big problem with a disguise, Mr. Holmes? However hard you try, it's always a self-portrait. You think I'm a vicar with a bleeding face? No, I think you're damaged, delusional and believe in a higher power. In your case it's yourself. ♥tumblr ♥twitter

28-04-2010, 08:57 PM	#4
pickle a summer state of mind Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 39,109 My Mood: Location: Buffalo, NY Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 1 Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts	Nope. __________________ ♣ poke ♣ tumble ♣ tweet ♣ our careless lifestyle it was not so unwise

28-04-2010, 09:02 PM	#8
Gitta Rensolo -1 Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 44,317 My Mood: Location: sleeping in a sidewalk with a Burger King crown Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 4 Times in 4 Posts	I told her that I really can't visit her right now and I know she is kind of mad at me now.... well, I want to help her but I am afraid, because the things I would tell her are the things she doesn't want to hear from a best-friend....those advices would be the same like my father did some months ago....I hated them, but now I know he was right __________________ keine Zeit, in Echtzeit Die Musik ist aus und ist immernoch da

28-04-2010, 09:03 PM	#9
pickle a summer state of mind Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 39,109 My Mood: Location: Buffalo, NY Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 1 Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts	I think John needs a hug. __________________ ♣ poke ♣ tumble ♣ tweet ♣ our careless lifestyle it was not so unwise

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28-04-2010, 08:59 PM	#5
William . … .… …..… Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 4,289 Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post	Just tell your friend why you can't, or just help each other since you have the same problem?

28-04-2010, 09:01 PM	#6
Empily RΣ√öLûτìσÑ Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 38,428 My Mood: Location: Somewhere only we know >:D Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 67 Thanked 101 Times in 57 Posts	Erm maybe are you saying your goood friend is an attention seeker about it?

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an angel still broken Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 49,553 Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 20 Thanked 16 Times in 11 Posts	^You're not funny. edit: at 2372 __________________ ♫♪ Serve me the sky with a big slice of lemon.

28-04-2010, 09:03 PM	#11
Gitta Rensolo -1 Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 44,317 My Mood: Location: sleeping in a sidewalk with a Burger King crown Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 4 Times in 4 Posts	Quote: Originally Posted by Emp3;4138156 Erm maybe are you saying your goood friend is an attention seeker about it? In some way yes....but I don't really want to think like that, because everyone is different __________________ keine Zeit, in Echtzeit Die Musik ist aus und ist immernoch da

28-04-2010, 09:04 PM	#12
Empily RΣ√öLûτìσÑ Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 38,428 My Mood: Location: Somewhere only we know >:D Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 67 Thanked 101 Times in 57 Posts	Is it about a guy?

28-04-2010, 09:05 PM	#13
pickle a summer state of mind Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 39,109 My Mood: Location: Buffalo, NY Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 1 Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts	I think I'm getting your problem. She sounds like she's being a little bit selfish about the situation lol. __________________ ♣ poke ♣ tumble ♣ tweet ♣ our careless lifestyle it was not so unwise

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