Sexual harassment

*andrea* · 06-11-2007, 03:56 AM

so, has someone here been trough this, knowns someone who does/did?

where? school, job, street etc

how much did/does affect you? have you been passive about it or have you kicked some ass around?

have you been able to live "normally" under the circumstances or has it took you so far (changing job, school, house etc)

OR

are you freaking stalker who likes to rub against anything that moves?

bruttiиo · 06-11-2007, 04:02 AM

well I have been sort of harassed once. but it's not like I couldn't defend myself. And it wasn't by a girl. it was a man in his 40s or something. At first he was just being nice and I just thought he was being friendly. But then he started saying things and practically stalking me. This was when I was working at a mall in Charlotte in a Cinnabon. I remember the first thing he said to me was that I had a great smile. I thought it was like the nicest compliment I ever heard.

Maybe I'm gullible but it took me forever to realize he was hitting on me. It wasn't until I misunderstood him say "have you ever been with an older man?" that I realized he wanted something from me. Then when I left he was really trying to hit on me. Luckily I had the chance to tell them I didn't want to work there, because I was already working at a different location for the same company. This was not a major thing though. I'm sure a lot of people here have experienced much much worse than that.

Reilly · 06-11-2007, 05:59 PM

Oprah raped me

bruttiиo · 06-11-2007, 07:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Reilly;2178736
Oprah raped me

that's disturbing in about 20 different ways

mc_squared · 06-11-2007, 07:28 PM

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Originally Posted by thebestyoucan;2178787
that's disturbing in about 20 different ways

Yes, you can expect to see him on Jeremy Kyle some time in the next few weeks...........

Reilly · 06-11-2007, 07:50 PM

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Originally Posted by thebestyoucan;2178787
that's disturbing in about 20 different ways

Hahahaha

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Originally Posted by mc_squared;2178790
Yes, you can expect to see him on Jeremy Kyle some time in the next few weeks...........

Oh great, Chuckles bringing up another joke 90% of people wont get.

mc_squared · 06-11-2007, 08:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Reilly;2178802
Hahahaha

Oh great, Chuckles bringing up another joke 90% of people wont get.

Most people don't get 99.9 per cent of what you spout on about..............
in fact, it wouldn't surprise me if you were actually related to Jeremy Kyle.

TimeIsOnYourSide · 06-11-2007, 09:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Reilly;2178736
Oprah raped me

I just threw up in my mouth

mc_squared · 06-11-2007, 09:29 PM

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Originally Posted by TimeIsOnYourSide;2178841
I just threw up in my mouth

Don't worry - he's used to getting that kind of reaction................

LiquidSky · 07-11-2007, 05:42 AM

Ahh man! I actually got harassed about 2 weeks ago~! Arghhhhhhh! This f******!@!!!! guy said something so

I don't even want to say but it was so out of line

I had the worst day ever. I started getting sick all of a sudden and I threw up everywhere. I even threw up at a hotel full of people! You don't want to know the rest but it was bad....

Bright · 07-11-2007, 06:29 PM

I don't think I have ever been sexually harassed but two of my friends have, by the same guy this guy who we used to like before he turned into some sex freak :/

The first time this guy did something he was sleeping next to friend nr 1 and he was jearking off and then he reached out and touched my friends butt and stroked her cheek.

The second time I was sharing bed with friend nr 1 & this guy and my friend and I woke up in the middle of the night because the freaking guy was jearking off like hell at the same time as he was trying to touch my friend's breasts underneath her clothes >_< eww it was so gross and both my friend and I pretended that we were asleep

The third time friend nr 2 was sleeping at this guy's house because he took care of her after a party :/ and I was supposed to sleep there as well but I was so drunk so I arrived later ;P anyway Mr. Gross opened friend nr 2's belt and touched her in places where the sun don't shine and her licked on her belly >_< and she was all alone with him! :O but then I came home and he got angry of course ;P and draged me into his house and well yeah...he's gross and we told his friends what he've done and they talked to him and now we don't really talk to Mr. gross unless we have to.

What really makes him stupid is that he says that my friends have made some of these things up and he denies it and calls it bullshit. He's an ass and we used to like him and all before :/

mc_squared · 07-11-2007, 06:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Bright;2179155
I

The first time this guy did something he was sleeping next to friend nr 1 and he was jearking off

Bright · 07-11-2007, 06:43 PM

yeah I know >_<

mc_squared · 07-11-2007, 06:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Bright;2179158
yeah I know >_<

He sounds like some kind of sex predator!!

It's beyond gross..................

Bright · 07-11-2007, 06:51 PM

he said he thought friend nr 1 was ready

06-11-2007, 03:56 AM	#1
andrea sweet brontosaurus Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 10,073 Location: In our bedroom after the war Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Sexual harassment so, has someone here been trough this, knowns someone who does/did? where? school, job, street etc how much did/does affect you? have you been passive about it or have you kicked some ass around? have you been able to live "normally" under the circumstances or has it took you so far (changing job, school, house etc) OR are you freaking stalker who likes to rub against anything that moves? __________________ I'm crazy, but cool - as appointed by wacko Clay meditationplease WWJB (We Want Jess Back! ) join now http://imagegen.last.fm/bethscoffee/...s/lollepop.gif ♥

06-11-2007, 04:02 AM	#2
bruttiиo ♥oиacid Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 18,270 Gender: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 2 Times in 1 Post	well I have been sort of harassed once. but it's not like I couldn't defend myself. And it wasn't by a girl. it was a man in his 40s or something. At first he was just being nice and I just thought he was being friendly. But then he started saying things and practically stalking me. This was when I was working at a mall in Charlotte in a Cinnabon. I remember the first thing he said to me was that I had a great smile. I thought it was like the nicest compliment I ever heard. Maybe I'm gullible but it took me forever to realize he was hitting on me. It wasn't until I misunderstood him say "have you ever been with an older man?" that I realized he wanted something from me. Then when I left he was really trying to hit on me. Luckily I had the chance to tell them I didn't want to work there, because I was already working at a different location for the same company. This was not a major thing though. I'm sure a lot of people here have experienced much much worse than that. __________________ Quote: Originally Posted by мaямellata;3951612 wait, wait.. i need to make this conversation funny: sex hahahahahahaaahhhaaaa

06-11-2007, 05:59 PM	#3
Reilly District 9er Badazz!11111 Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 36,214 Chat posts: 570 Thanks given: 49 Thanked 371 Times in 222 Posts	Oprah raped me __________________ This door... ...needs some WD-40. Quote: Originally Posted by Fix42YellowClocks I cannot argue my point of the seemingly conflicting idea of why I have the right to argue people shouldn't be allowed to tell Coldplay to stop expressing themselves without a fundamental argument to the freedoms we enjoy. Has anyone really been far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like?

06-11-2007, 07:26 PM	#4
bruttiиo ♥oиacid Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 18,270 Gender: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 2 Times in 1 Post	Quote: Originally Posted by Reilly;2178736 Oprah raped me that's disturbing in about 20 different ways __________________ Quote: Originally Posted by мaямellata;3951612 wait, wait.. i need to make this conversation funny: sex hahahahahahaaahhhaaaa

06-11-2007, 07:28 PM	#5
mc_squared Banned Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 67,519 My Mood: Location: Wherever life takes me Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 4 Times in 4 Posts	Quote: Originally Posted by thebestyoucan;2178787 that's disturbing in about 20 different ways Yes, you can expect to see him on Jeremy Kyle some time in the next few weeks........... __________________ LIFE ISN'T MEANT TO BE TAKEN SERIOUSLY Be yourself, no matter what anyone else thinks. Work to live - don't live to work...................... Age is purely a state of mind! Don't waste your time on jealousy. Success is a journey, NOT a destination. Life is a marathon, NOT a sprint! http://www.generationterrorists.com/...sunscreen.html

06-11-2007, 07:50 PM	#6
Reilly District 9er Badazz!11111 Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 36,214 Chat posts: 570 Thanks given: 49 Thanked 371 Times in 222 Posts	Quote: Originally Posted by thebestyoucan;2178787 that's disturbing in about 20 different ways Hahahaha Quote: Originally Posted by mc_squared;2178790 Yes, you can expect to see him on Jeremy Kyle some time in the next few weeks........... Oh great, Chuckles bringing up another joke 90% of people wont get. __________________ This door... ...needs some WD-40. Quote: Originally Posted by Fix42YellowClocks I cannot argue my point of the seemingly conflicting idea of why I have the right to argue people shouldn't be allowed to tell Coldplay to stop expressing themselves without a fundamental argument to the freedoms we enjoy. Has anyone really been far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like?

06-11-2007, 08:56 PM	#7
mc_squared Banned Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 67,519 My Mood: Location: Wherever life takes me Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 4 Times in 4 Posts	Quote: Originally Posted by Reilly;2178802 Hahahaha Oh great, Chuckles bringing up another joke 90% of people wont get. Most people don't get 99.9 per cent of what you spout on about.............. in fact, it wouldn't surprise me if you were actually related to Jeremy Kyle. __________________ LIFE ISN'T MEANT TO BE TAKEN SERIOUSLY Be yourself, no matter what anyone else thinks. Work to live - don't live to work...................... Age is purely a state of mind! Don't waste your time on jealousy. Success is a journey, NOT a destination. Life is a marathon, NOT a sprint! http://www.generationterrorists.com/...sunscreen.html

06-11-2007, 09:27 PM	#8
TimeIsOnYourSide moving to mars.... Join Date: Nov 2003 Posts: 4,937 My Mood: Location: Yankee land Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Quote: Originally Posted by Reilly;2178736 Oprah raped me I just threw up in my mouth

06-11-2007, 09:29 PM	#9
mc_squared Banned Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 67,519 My Mood: Location: Wherever life takes me Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 4 Times in 4 Posts	Quote: Originally Posted by TimeIsOnYourSide;2178841 I just threw up in my mouth Don't worry - he's used to getting that kind of reaction................ __________________ LIFE ISN'T MEANT TO BE TAKEN SERIOUSLY Be yourself, no matter what anyone else thinks. Work to live - don't live to work...................... Age is purely a state of mind! Don't waste your time on jealousy. Success is a journey, NOT a destination. Life is a marathon, NOT a sprint! http://www.generationterrorists.com/...sunscreen.html

07-11-2007, 05:42 AM	#10
LiquidSky >.< Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 43,838 My Mood: Location: Skyrocket To Mars Gender: Chat posts: 5 Thanks given: 64 Thanked 51 Times in 35 Posts	Ahh man! I actually got harassed about 2 weeks ago~! Arghhhhhhh! This f******!@!!!! guy said something so I don't even want to say but it was so out of line I had the worst day ever. I started getting sick all of a sudden and I threw up everywhere. I even threw up at a hotel full of people! You don't want to know the rest but it was bad.... __________________

07-11-2007, 06:29 PM	#11
Bright Coldplayer Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 12,084 Location: Göteborg! Goa gubbar, Glenn Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	I don't think I have ever been sexually harassed but two of my friends have, by the same guy this guy who we used to like before he turned into some sex freak :/ The first time this guy did something he was sleeping next to friend nr 1 and he was jearking off and then he reached out and touched my friends butt and stroked her cheek. The second time I was sharing bed with friend nr 1 & this guy and my friend and I woke up in the middle of the night because the freaking guy was jearking off like hell at the same time as he was trying to touch my friend's breasts underneath her clothes >_< eww it was so gross and both my friend and I pretended that we were asleep The third time friend nr 2 was sleeping at this guy's house because he took care of her after a party :/ and I was supposed to sleep there as well but I was so drunk so I arrived later ;P anyway Mr. Gross opened friend nr 2's belt and touched her in places where the sun don't shine and her licked on her belly >_< and she was all alone with him! :O but then I came home and he got angry of course ;P and draged me into his house and well yeah...he's gross and we told his friends what he've done and they talked to him and now we don't really talk to Mr. gross unless we have to. What really makes him stupid is that he says that my friends have made some of these things up and he denies it and calls it bullshit. He's an ass and we used to like him and all before :/ __________________ :flickr I'm not a rocket scientist I rock the house and sign the tits and that's it t-t-t-tumblr

07-11-2007, 06:39 PM	#12
mc_squared Banned Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 67,519 My Mood: Location: Wherever life takes me Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 4 Times in 4 Posts	Quote: Originally Posted by Bright;2179155 I The first time this guy did something he was sleeping next to friend nr 1 and he was jearking off __________________ LIFE ISN'T MEANT TO BE TAKEN SERIOUSLY Be yourself, no matter what anyone else thinks. Work to live - don't live to work...................... Age is purely a state of mind! Don't waste your time on jealousy. Success is a journey, NOT a destination. Life is a marathon, NOT a sprint! http://www.generationterrorists.com/...sunscreen.html

07-11-2007, 06:43 PM	#13
Bright Coldplayer Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 12,084 Location: Göteborg! Goa gubbar, Glenn Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	yeah I know >_< __________________ :flickr I'm not a rocket scientist I rock the house and sign the tits and that's it t-t-t-tumblr

07-11-2007, 06:50 PM	#14
mc_squared Banned Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 67,519 My Mood: Location: Wherever life takes me Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 4 Times in 4 Posts	Quote: Originally Posted by Bright;2179158 yeah I know >_< He sounds like some kind of sex predator!! It's beyond gross.................. __________________ LIFE ISN'T MEANT TO BE TAKEN SERIOUSLY Be yourself, no matter what anyone else thinks. Work to live - don't live to work...................... Age is purely a state of mind! Don't waste your time on jealousy. Success is a journey, NOT a destination. Life is a marathon, NOT a sprint! http://www.generationterrorists.com/...sunscreen.html

07-11-2007, 06:51 PM	#15
Bright Coldplayer Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 12,084 Location: Göteborg! Goa gubbar, Glenn Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	he said he thought friend nr 1 was ready __________________ :flickr I'm not a rocket scientist I rock the house and sign the tits and that's it t-t-t-tumblr