how to get it off???

wawie_shizuka · 22-06-2006, 03:30 PM

well..have you ever had a crush on someone for years..???and if you do..how do you actually get him/her off of your mind...

well, imagine this..u met a guy/gurl..and you're attracted to him/her...then you
both became friends...years later, u grow matured and finally decide to tell him/her the truth..you gave a hint...u flirt a little..but there's no response..he/she have a slight idea that u fancy him/her...now he/she wont even talk to you...u decided to back off..and let your broken heart healed in this cruel world...but how do you actually get that person off your mind..???

give me some ideas here...i'm going out of my mind...

Grace · 22-06-2006, 03:38 PM

well, it happened to me ... kinda in the way you described your situation (i guess).

how did i get over him?
mhhh ... i first decided to get over him because i didn't want him to control my messed up life.
i stopped looking at him and started ignoring him.
i counted all the bad things about him and i recognised that there are a lot more bad things about him than good things.
and just do other things ...don't listen to love songs or songs that deal with the cruelty of this world.

crazyduckette · 22-06-2006, 04:16 PM

A guy I knew I could never have in the end....I just made myself realise it could never happen. So I just kept that in my mind, and eventually....slowly stopped thinking about him. A little different from your situation but I guess it could still apply.

wawie_shizuka · 22-06-2006, 05:16 PM

hahaha...the worst is that when i was in process of forgetting him...i dreamt of him last night...
suckss.....
big time......

The Scientist Man · 22-06-2006, 05:23 PM

hmm....sounds kinda like What If.

Really don't have any ideas. Sorry

bedofroses · 22-06-2006, 05:40 PM

yup...i have liked someone for ages......and its been on and off..try and forget them..it works...then it somehow returns...and you are left trying to forget it all over again

Reilly · 22-06-2006, 06:10 PM

You have to try and occupy your time with something else.

I'm currently kinda getting over someone. She wasnt a big love in my life or anything but since my last 'big love' situation she was the only pure and genuine girl I had met in a year, and I guess she was just kinda neat and fresh, and got stuck in my head.

It doesnt help that she contacts me regularly as a friend, just to chat.

My plan is by finding other girls, just to have a bit of fun, to keep texting and talking to, just to keep my mind off this one. Its not really working out though, anytime I feel like actually asking out a nice girl, I always kinda stop myself, and I dont know why.

But really I think you should try and find others, to occupy your time.

Space Cadet · 22-06-2006, 07:57 PM

Well I'm not much help... I just tried not to think about him (with varying success) until several years later when he graduated from highschool and got married. That kind of put an end to things.

Black Rose · 22-06-2006, 08:01 PM

Just put it to the back of your mind and move on to other things, fancying another person says the person who hasn't really ever had a girlfriend

wawie_shizuka · 23-06-2006, 06:44 AM

its kinda the crush that u deeply fall in love with and will never have him...
man..this sucks

dontyoushiver · 26-06-2006, 01:07 PM

once i had a crush on this guy so i asked him out and he said no, that was the end of that and i instantly got over it

Reilly · 26-06-2006, 01:42 PM

Quote:
Originally Posted by wawie_shizuka
its kinda the crush that u deeply fall in love with and will never have him...
man..this sucks

I know its hard, but you are going to have to be brave and move on. Your just killing yourself otherwise.

I know I know, you cant just 'repress' your thoughts, but I beg to differ! You cant do it instantly but if you keep trying to think of more calming things when you get emotional over him, and look at things in broader horizons and the irrelevance of this situation in the long run, well, you'll get past this dude (Thats all he is, a dude, not your life)

Good luck.

Bijeli_Miš · 26-06-2006, 02:32 PM

I thought that title was "how to get off".

Reilly · 26-06-2006, 02:34 PM

Hahahaha me too.

bonita · 26-06-2006, 02:40 PM

i thought the same too.

as for wawie_shaz, he didn't reciprocate the feelings, so get the nice fluffy image of him, out of your head. and just think of him as not worth your time, if he's stopped speaking to you because you like him, then he's not worth it, you will find someone else.

22-06-2006, 03:30 PM	#1
wawie_shizuka dearly beloved Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 143 Location: coldplay's castle Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	how to get it off??? well..have you ever had a crush on someone for years..???and if you do..how do you actually get him/her off of your mind... well, imagine this..u met a guy/gurl..and you're attracted to him/her...then you both became friends...years later, u grow matured and finally decide to tell him/her the truth..you gave a hint...u flirt a little..but there's no response..he/she have a slight idea that u fancy him/her...now he/she wont even talk to you...u decided to back off..and let your broken heart healed in this cruel world...but how do you actually get that person off your mind..??? give me some ideas here...i'm going out of my mind... __________________ "If this all ended tomorrow, we'd still be doing it:Jonny" *-'Chris is the face, Will is the leg, Guy is the arm and I'm the chest hair.'-Jonny Buckland* -MY review on my 1st coldplay concert..."Chris had the greatest showmanship than any singer i've ever seen, guy was bruttaly hot, will was awesome and amazing, and jonny...he was a rockstar, a sexy rockstar..basically the highlight of my life... *For Coldplay i wait...Till kingdom come...* THANX COLDPLAY FOR THE BEST NIGHT OF MY ENTIRE 20 YEARS OF LIVING... -10TH OF JULY 2006- TWISTED LOGIC TOUR SINGAPORE..

22-06-2006, 03:38 PM	#2
Grace yellow bird. Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 12,670 My Mood: Location: Frankfurt am Main Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	well, it happened to me ... kinda in the way you described your situation (i guess). how did i get over him? mhhh ... i first decided to get over him because i didn't want him to control my messed up life. i stopped looking at him and started ignoring him. i counted all the bad things about him and i recognised that there are a lot more bad things about him than good things. and just do other things ...don't listen to love songs or songs that deal with the cruelty of this world. __________________ http://img41.imageshack.us/img41/861...jtzdd4jf5t.jpg The saddest kind of sad is the sad that tries not to be sad. You know, when Sad tries to bite its lip and not cry and smile and go, “No, I’m happy for you”? That’s when it’s really sad. http://couture-du-jour.blogspot.com לְחַיִּים

22-06-2006, 04:16 PM	#3
crazyduckette ...they're just spies Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 8,740 Location: Brighton, UK Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post	A guy I knew I could never have in the end....I just made myself realise it could never happen. So I just kept that in my mind, and eventually....slowly stopped thinking about him. A little different from your situation but I guess it could still apply. __________________ http://img692.imageshack.us/img692/7...dorable0iz.gif no, thank YOU Jonny

22-06-2006, 05:16 PM	#4
wawie_shizuka dearly beloved Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 143 Location: coldplay's castle Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	hahaha...the worst is that when i was in process of forgetting him...i dreamt of him last night... suckss..... big time...... __________________ "If this all ended tomorrow, we'd still be doing it:Jonny" *-'Chris is the face, Will is the leg, Guy is the arm and I'm the chest hair.'-Jonny Buckland* -MY review on my 1st coldplay concert..."Chris had the greatest showmanship than any singer i've ever seen, guy was bruttaly hot, will was awesome and amazing, and jonny...he was a rockstar, a sexy rockstar..basically the highlight of my life... *For Coldplay i wait...Till kingdom come...* THANX COLDPLAY FOR THE BEST NIGHT OF MY ENTIRE 20 YEARS OF LIVING... -10TH OF JULY 2006- TWISTED LOGIC TOUR SINGAPORE..

22-06-2006, 05:23 PM	#5
The Scientist Man A Hot Pocket Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 4,389 My Mood: Location: Mostly On The Top, But Sometimes On The Bottom Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post	hmm....sounds kinda like What If. Really don't have any ideas. Sorry __________________ ~May The Force Be With You!~

22-06-2006, 05:40 PM	#6
bedofroses Society's Fabric Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 6,162 Location: England Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts	yup...i have liked someone for ages......and its been on and off..try and forget them..it works...then it somehow returns...and you are left trying to forget it all over again

22-06-2006, 06:10 PM	#7
Reilly District 9er Badazz!11111 Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 36,035 Chat posts: 65 Thanks given: 46 Thanked 341 Times in 197 Posts	You have to try and occupy your time with something else. I'm currently kinda getting over someone. She wasnt a big love in my life or anything but since my last 'big love' situation she was the only pure and genuine girl I had met in a year, and I guess she was just kinda neat and fresh, and got stuck in my head. It doesnt help that she contacts me regularly as a friend, just to chat. My plan is by finding other girls, just to have a bit of fun, to keep texting and talking to, just to keep my mind off this one. Its not really working out though, anytime I feel like actually asking out a nice girl, I always kinda stop myself, and I dont know why. But really I think you should try and find others, to occupy your time. __________________ This door... ...needs some WD-40. Quote: Originally Posted by Fix42YellowClocks I cannot argue my point of the seemingly conflicting idea of why I have the right to argue people shouldn't be allowed to tell Coldplay to stop expressing themselves without a fundamental argument to the freedoms we enjoy. Has anyone really been far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like?

22-06-2006, 07:57 PM	#8
Space Cadet You have been warned. Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 6,738 My Mood: Location: Nova Scotia Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts	Well I'm not much help... I just tried not to think about him (with varying success) until several years later when he graduated from highschool and got married. That kind of put an end to things.

22-06-2006, 08:01 PM	#9
Black Rose Bear with me Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 47,545 My Mood: Location: A strangeland under the iron sea where hopes & fears can make the night train be in perfect symmetry Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 6 Thanked 107 Times in 85 Posts	Just put it to the back of your mind and move on to other things, fancying another person says the person who hasn't really ever had a girlfriend __________________ You could take a picture of something you see In the future where will I be? You could climb a ladder up to the sun Or write a song nobody had sung Or do something that's never been done

23-06-2006, 06:44 AM	#10
wawie_shizuka dearly beloved Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 143 Location: coldplay's castle Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	its kinda the crush that u deeply fall in love with and will never have him... man..this sucks __________________ "If this all ended tomorrow, we'd still be doing it:Jonny" *-'Chris is the face, Will is the leg, Guy is the arm and I'm the chest hair.'-Jonny Buckland* -MY review on my 1st coldplay concert..."Chris had the greatest showmanship than any singer i've ever seen, guy was bruttaly hot, will was awesome and amazing, and jonny...he was a rockstar, a sexy rockstar..basically the highlight of my life... *For Coldplay i wait...Till kingdom come...* THANX COLDPLAY FOR THE BEST NIGHT OF MY ENTIRE 20 YEARS OF LIVING... -10TH OF JULY 2006- TWISTED LOGIC TOUR SINGAPORE..

26-06-2006, 01:07 PM	#11
dontyoushiver Coldplayer Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 839 Location: Brisbane, Australia Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	once i had a crush on this guy so i asked him out and he said no, that was the end of that and i instantly got over it __________________ Coldplay is for people with great taste, intelligence, incredible good lookingness, talent, ability, success, grabbing of life. Coldplay's for people who know what life is about. They are always entertaining. Delightful to talk to. Sweet, charming, incredibly good in bed. Virile. They have incredible success with girls or boys...or both. They're generally just the world's best citizens.Maybe i'm biased. But i'm definitly right. --- Chris Martin on Enough Rope with Andrew Denton

26-06-2006, 01:42 PM	#12
Reilly District 9er Badazz!11111 Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 36,035 Chat posts: 65 Thanks given: 46 Thanked 341 Times in 197 Posts	Quote: Originally Posted by wawie_shizuka its kinda the crush that u deeply fall in love with and will never have him... man..this sucks I know its hard, but you are going to have to be brave and move on. Your just killing yourself otherwise. I know I know, you cant just 'repress' your thoughts, but I beg to differ! You cant do it instantly but if you keep trying to think of more calming things when you get emotional over him, and look at things in broader horizons and the irrelevance of this situation in the long run, well, you'll get past this dude (Thats all he is, a dude, not your life) Good luck. __________________ This door... ...needs some WD-40. Quote: Originally Posted by Fix42YellowClocks I cannot argue my point of the seemingly conflicting idea of why I have the right to argue people shouldn't be allowed to tell Coldplay to stop expressing themselves without a fundamental argument to the freedoms we enjoy. Has anyone really been far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like?

26-06-2006, 02:32 PM	#13
Bijeli_Miš A rather unrealistic guy Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 5,320 Location: In a place where you don't Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	I thought that title was "how to get off". __________________ http://img475.imageshack.us/img475/6244/ffavzo8.gif

26-06-2006, 02:34 PM	#14
Reilly District 9er Badazz!11111 Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 36,035 Chat posts: 65 Thanks given: 46 Thanked 341 Times in 197 Posts	Hahahaha me too. __________________ This door... ...needs some WD-40. Quote: Originally Posted by Fix42YellowClocks I cannot argue my point of the seemingly conflicting idea of why I have the right to argue people shouldn't be allowed to tell Coldplay to stop expressing themselves without a fundamental argument to the freedoms we enjoy. Has anyone really been far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like?

26-06-2006, 02:40 PM	#15
bonita you & i collide Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 6,155 Location: Australia Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	i thought the same too. as for wawie_shaz, he didn't reciprocate the feelings, so get the nice fluffy image of him, out of your head. and just think of him as not worth your time, if he's stopped speaking to you because you like him, then he's not worth it, you will find someone else. __________________ I'm too cool for myspace. and facebook.

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