which is worse- dumping someone... or getting dumped?

walkingcontradiction · 26-04-2003, 11:53 AM

i know it may seem like getting dumped is worse but i think it can be equally as hard to dump someone, esp. if you've been with the person for a while

so what do you guys think?

God · 26-04-2003, 01:06 PM

it is worse to be the person left behind. it may be hard for the other person also, but they are leaving by choice.

Manders · 26-04-2003, 01:11 PM

DUMPING man i did that w/ my b/f i 5 months in 7th grade.....yea well it was hard.....we were like silent for 10 mins...and he finally hung up...yea it was hard!!!!!! but 7th grade doesnt count i dont guess.....too young

weedy_gonzalez · 26-04-2003, 01:34 PM

yeah dumping is worst in my fooking opinion

Reilly · 26-04-2003, 02:07 PM

Getting dumped because if you get that then youre a big fricken loser, and if you dump someone you get to like tell people and be all happy and jolly.

(Im kidding of course)

walkingcontradiction · 26-04-2003, 03:35 PM

lol, reilly.

i think dumping is worse.. i mean, i dumped the guy and hes crying over the phone like a baby. it makes you feel like shit ..

Everlong · 26-04-2003, 05:50 PM

Dumping is worse, because atleast when you're dumped you know it's there fault, not yours. But when you dump someone it makes you feel horribly guilty because you know that they're hurting because of you.

God · 26-04-2003, 06:31 PM

sometimes when you are dumped you feel that you've done something wrong?

and sometimes when you are dumping you feel that the other person deserves it

i think that whether you are dumped or the dumpee, a relationship ending is upsetting for both sides.

staring elf · 26-04-2003, 06:38 PM

getting dumped definitely....

Victoria · 26-04-2003, 06:49 PM

Getting dumped, because if nothing else you are going to miss them. And if you don't miss them then it doesn't matter about getting dumped

molly77 · 26-04-2003, 09:00 PM

getting dumped i would have to think. although, im always the one who does the dumping

God · 26-04-2003, 09:09 PM

we should have a poll

staring elf · 26-04-2003, 09:11 PM

yap..

Victoria · 26-04-2003, 09:33 PM

good idea ...

daisy · 27-04-2003, 05:49 PM

dumping

26-04-2003, 11:53 AM	#1
walkingcontradiction Coldplayer Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 235 Location: lost in a maze Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	which is worse- dumping someone... or getting dumped? i know it may seem like getting dumped is worse but i think it can be equally as hard to dump someone, esp. if you've been with the person for a while so what do you guys think? __________________ i feel safe when i am with you i feel warm when you want me too i am cured when i\'m by your side i\'m alright. careful where you stand, my love careful where you lay your head it\'s true we\'re always looking out for one another

26-04-2003, 01:06 PM	#2
God Coldplayer Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 815 Location: Belgium Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	it is worse to be the person left behind. it may be hard for the other person also, but they are leaving by choice. __________________ I want you to know He\'s not coming back Look into my eyes I\'m not coming back http://www.livejournal.com/users/rowemegood/

26-04-2003, 01:11 PM	#3
Manders Coldplayer Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 19,695 Location: let me stand next to your fire! Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	DUMPING man i did that w/ my b/f i 5 months in 7th grade.....yea well it was hard.....we were like silent for 10 mins...and he finally hung up...yea it was hard!!!!!! but 7th grade doesnt count i dont guess.....too young __________________ In the streets the children screamed The lovers cried and the poets dreamed But not a word was spoken The church bells all were broken And the three men I admire most The father son and the holy ghost they caught the last train for the coast The day the music died.

26-04-2003, 01:34 PM	#4
weedy_gonzalez divalicious diva Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 11,609 Location: hackney, london Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	yeah dumping is worst in my fooking opinion __________________ `I have to pee but when I come back I`d really like to continue talking about this conversation`

26-04-2003, 02:07 PM	#5
Reilly District 9er Badazz!11111 Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 35,989 Chat posts: 61 Thanks given: 45 Thanked 336 Times in 192 Posts	Getting dumped because if you get that then youre a big fricken loser, and if you dump someone you get to like tell people and be all happy and jolly. (Im kidding of course) __________________ This door... ...needs some WD-40. Quote: Originally Posted by Fix42YellowClocks I cannot argue my point of the seemingly conflicting idea of why I have the right to argue people shouldn't be allowed to tell Coldplay to stop expressing themselves without a fundamental argument to the freedoms we enjoy. Has anyone really been far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like?

26-04-2003, 03:35 PM	#6
walkingcontradiction Coldplayer Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 235 Location: lost in a maze Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	lol, reilly. i think dumping is worse.. i mean, i dumped the guy and hes crying over the phone like a baby. it makes you feel like shit .. __________________ i feel safe when i am with you i feel warm when you want me too i am cured when i\'m by your side i\'m alright. careful where you stand, my love careful where you lay your head it\'s true we\'re always looking out for one another

26-04-2003, 05:50 PM	#7
Everlong Coldplayer Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 74 Location: Florida Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Dumping is worse, because atleast when you're dumped you know it's there fault, not yours. But when you dump someone it makes you feel horribly guilty because you know that they're hurting because of you. __________________ Sarah

26-04-2003, 06:31 PM	#8
God Coldplayer Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 815 Location: Belgium Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	sometimes when you are dumped you feel that you've done something wrong? and sometimes when you are dumping you feel that the other person deserves it i think that whether you are dumped or the dumpee, a relationship ending is upsetting for both sides. __________________ I want you to know He\'s not coming back Look into my eyes I\'m not coming back http://www.livejournal.com/users/rowemegood/

26-04-2003, 06:38 PM	#9
staring elf ex bunny eater Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 7,657 Location: Woodlands, Singapore. Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	sux getting dumped definitely.... __________________ Eg élska Sigur Rós.

26-04-2003, 06:49 PM	#10
Victoria Coldplayer Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 2,686 Location: Bristol, England Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Getting dumped, because if nothing else you are going to miss them. And if you don't miss them then it doesn't matter about getting dumped __________________ Oooh, that\'s right, let\'s take a breath, jump over the side.

26-04-2003, 09:00 PM	#11
molly77 Coldplayer Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 399 Location: Windsor, Ontario Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	getting dumped i would have to think. although, im always the one who does the dumping __________________ thats bril! i wish we had more fans like you! things would be a lot more ummm.......interesting-yeah, most people arent that zealous! i just hope your still a fan in a couple years i know i used to like ash -jonny buckland

26-04-2003, 09:09 PM	#12
God Coldplayer Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 815 Location: Belgium Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	we should have a poll __________________ I want you to know He\'s not coming back Look into my eyes I\'m not coming back http://www.livejournal.com/users/rowemegood/

26-04-2003, 09:11 PM	#13
staring elf ex bunny eater Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 7,657 Location: Woodlands, Singapore. Gender: Country: Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	yap.. __________________ Eg élska Sigur Rós.

26-04-2003, 09:33 PM	#14
Victoria Coldplayer Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 2,686 Location: Bristol, England Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	good idea ... __________________ Oooh, that\'s right, let\'s take a breath, jump over the side.

27-04-2003, 05:49 PM	#15
daisy Coldplayer Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 28 Location: Kent, UK Chat posts: 0 Thanks given: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	dumping __________________ [scroll:5740ff5fc4] All the promises we make from the cradle to the grave [/scroll:5740ff5fc4] [scroll:5740ff5fc4]when all I want is you [/scroll:5740ff5fc4]

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