Ainsley I'm sorry about your loss and the whole situation in your country. Just remember that life goes on and that one can't run away from happines stuck in fear and the past. I hope that you recover tranquilty and learn to keep loving and smiling despite uncertainity and restlessness. Hugs to you and my condolences to you and your acquaintances.
I would like to tell you - and might also post it in the thread - that tomorrow
Copenhagen Catedral holds a memorial service at 2pm - it is for the official Denmark headed by the Queen and Prime Minister Lars Loekke Rasmussen. The latter will deliver a speech. The Norwegian Ambassador will also be present, and he will speak as well. The general public is welcome as well. I consider going to show my sympathy for Norway and the Norwegian population in these troubled times.
The memorial service is broadcast on Danish television.
Your posts in the thread were all very good. And Saffire even said that he was sorry. Your response to that post was brilliant. All the best to you and your dear ones.