How do I realise that somebody likes me?

[Gitta Rensolo]

I mean that he likes me...yes.---

- if he writes me that he hopes I have a nice weekend?
- if he says "wonderful" when I say I'll go now,too?
- if he says after the wonderful "So I'll go with you o the bus station" although he doesn't have to?
- if he says "Hey I found a cd for you, the music sounds similar to the Doors.....I'll give to you on thursday?
- if he asks "How was your day?"
- if he is sitting next to me in a lecture?



whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa....I just want to know if he likes me...:bigcry:

[freckles]

Hey Jules, I think that he likes you, or at least, he thinks you're an interesting person (and he's right). When he says he found a cd for you, that means he was thinking about you and he knows what you like.

I think you should definitely behave the same way you did, maybe you could show some interest to him as well, in case you also like him. ;)

[RICK8]

I think he likes you...:D

[Lore]

He likes you yeahhh yeahh yeahhhh.. *singing*

ok.. those are not the real lyrics but still.. :uhoh:

I think he likes you :)

[zeoir]

Go for it JulietJules :wacko: ! He obviously thinks you're an interesting person with an awesome music taste and he wants to come with you to the bus station..just for you!

[MrMagpie]

I'd say he probably likes you....

....unless he is just one of those people that is super friendly to everybody!

[Petit Prince]

sounds like he really likes you

[burningmonk]

He likes you, Jules ;)

Its hard not to actually :nice:

[Gitta Rensolo]

I'd say he probably likes you....

....unless he is just one of those people that is super friendly to everybody!

heheh well this is what I thought as well....but well I think there is one thing about him....I think he isn't like that...I mean yeah he is really friendly to others...but I think he is one of those persons who chooses who to hang around with if you know what I mean...I could be wrong...


but awwwwwww well he should like me...pleeeeeaaasseeee...I just don't want interpret too much because I did that in many other cases and I was always wrong that's why I think I should be careful...but on the other hand I think I never got that "far" in cases of guys....I think this time he likes me...he shooouuullldddd...so far the things became true like I wanted them to be...and that never happened before...whohooooo...(for example that he went to the bus station with me...it's funny that I was "dreaming" about that the day before...:P)....


ooooh btw Mo...he loooovvveeesss Moon because he is a drummer himself...:smoking:

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.........I only want to be lucky....just this time....how long have I waited for this?...:wacky:


I don't want to be wrong...:bigcry:

[Ms Magpie]

Awwww! =) I also think he likes you! :nice:

[Black Rose]

Julia, just remember love hurts.

But it sounds like he has a crush on you (and who won't love you?)

[Ms Magpie]

^ Love doesn't hurt if it's requited. ;)

[zeoir]

Julia, just remember love hurts.

But it sounds like he has a crush on you (and who won't love you?)

So it's better just to avoid all the nice people 'cause you could like them or even fall in love with them?

Love doesn't ALWAYS have to hurt, no no.
All i have to say is that internet-love won't work. I've seen that way too many times. Sorry to say but it's true in many cases.

[Black Rose]

If Internet Love doesn't work, why are online dating sites so popular?

[LiquidSky]

Why can't you just ask him? It is that simple.. and you can ask without sounding 'serious' and then say you are serious.

[zeoir]

If Internet Love doesn't work, why are online dating sites so popular?

I don't mean that. I mean those situations where two people live in different countries and they've met on internet and don't have a chance to meet like..at all.

It's different if the couple have met in "real life" and then have to continue it as an internet relationship because of working or something else.

But i don't see the point of having a relationship ONLY on internet..or phone.
It's never the same to actually live with another person and such. This happened to one of my friends (or ex-friends) She fell in love with a guy, the guy came here to visit her a year ago. 2 months after that the guy moved here from scotland and now their relationship is pretty much crap.
It was just too big change..from talking on internet and phone to living together 24/7.
And now the girl is totally wacko and the guy is in a difficult situation. He doesn't know the language well (he's learning though) and he has no job, he got into a school this fall though, but that's over in december.. he doesn't even have his own bank account..

Thank god he has started to talk about this with us..and he said that he thought she was SO different when he talked to her on internet.


There, dunno if it's worth of reading. Haha, just had to write it..Sorry :P

[LiquidSky]

well that does sound difficult. Umm I should keep that in mind hahaha:laugh3::thinking:

[Black Rose]

It's like if a boyfriend and girlfriend go to different Unis.

[zeoir]

well that does sound difficult. Umm I should keep that in mind hahaha:laugh3::thinking:

Yeah.. I'm not saying it can't work for some people. But it clearly didn't work for them.

[Gitta Rensolo]

:bigcry:

he should like me (hahahah I'm repeating myself...)....but I can't stop thinking of him.....:bigcry:

[LiquidSky]

Do you want us to ask him for you?! :idea2:

[Ms Magpie]

It's like if a boyfriend and girlfriend go to different Unis.this can be a problem. :\ but if they're able to see each other during weekends, then why not?

[mandymcnabb]

Guys please list ways in which you act when you like a female.

please.
:laugh4:

[Rad-Cold]

So it's better just to avoid all the nice people 'cause you could like them or even fall in love with them?

Love doesn't ALWAYS have to hurt, no no.
All i have to say is that internet-love won't work. I've seen that way too many times. Sorry to say but it's true in many cases.


I thought that too.
But my cousin got a boyfriend now from another country..already for 2 years now.
But yeah, in many cases it doesnt work.

[Gitta Rensolo]

Guys please list ways in which you act when you like a female.

please.
:laugh4:

Yes.....pleeeeeaaaaseeeeeeeee:bigcry:



mwhaa....:wacky:

[Gitta Rensolo]

Do you want us to ask him for you?! :idea2:

YES....good idea...erm I'll give you his facebook profile..:nice:

[zeoir]

YES....good idea...erm I'll give you his facebook profile..:nice:

he has a facebook profile :wacko: ? For real?

And now you've got to show it!! :dance:

[Jack]

I don't mean that. I mean those situations where two people live in different countries and they've met on internet and don't have a chance to meet like..at all.

It's different if the couple have met in "real life" and then have to continue it as an internet relationship because of working or something else.

But i don't see the point of having a relationship ONLY on internet..or phone.
It's never the same to actually live with another person and such. This happened to one of my friends (or ex-friends) She fell in love with a guy, the guy came here to visit her a year ago. 2 months after that the guy moved here from scotland and now their relationship is pretty much crap.
It was just too big change..from talking on internet and phone to living together 24/7.
And now the girl is totally wacko and the guy is in a difficult situation. He doesn't know the language well (he's learning though) and he has no job, he got into a school this fall though, but that's over in december.. he doesn't even have his own bank account..

Thank god he has started to talk about this with us..and he said that he thought she was SO different when he talked to her on internet.


There, dunno if it's worth of reading. Haha, just had to write it..Sorry :P




Haha. I'm going tomorrow to meet a girl I've spoke to online for the past 6 months :P


She lives like, the other end of England, pretty much. Like, 3 or 4 hours away.

[zeoir]

Haha. I'm going tomorrow to meet a girl I've spoke to online for the past 6 months :P


She lives like, the other end of England, pretty much. Like, 3 or 4 hours away.

Ha, there's nothing wrong with that!
But it was kinda like they were already dating and so totally in love although they had never met..but i guess they fell even more in love after seeing each other for real.

But according to the latest news the boyfriend of my ex-friend is thinking of breaking up with her 'cause she's totally insane and doesn't think at all what he may be thinking of all that crap.
He really should just move out and start a new life without her. And yeah, i hope he has the guts to do that.. it'd be the best for everyone really.

But as i said, there's nooothing wrong with meeting with someone you've met on the internet! I'd do that all the time if i had enough money and time, ha.

[Gitta Rensolo]

he has a facebook profile :wacko: ? For real?

And now you've got to show it!! :dance:

haha yes he has....but it's the german facebook thing and you can only look at others profiles if you're a member there..:P

but he is cuuute awwwww...:blush:

[zeoir]

haha yes he has....but it's the german facebook thing and you can only look at others profiles if you're a member there..:P

but he is cuuute awwwww...:blush:

Ah damn.. take a screenshot :wacko:? OR just show us his piccie :wink3:
We never saw those pics taken in a bar on the bar's website so you've gotta show these!!

[Gitta Rensolo]

ha I could easily do it....but that wouldn't be nice....noooooo....:uhoh:

[zeoir]

aw, how come? It's just us :wacko:

Or then you could send a pm, eh? Hahaha
Or post it and then delete it after a few mins!

[Mojo Pin]

*goes to facebook and register as Julia and posts horny comments on that guy's profile*


:mellow:

[Gitta Rensolo]

Nooooooooooo....I'm too worried...:uhoh:


bah Ren I'll NEVER talk to you again:bigcry: *knows that she is lying*

[Mojo Pin]

awwww don't worry but may i post as Rolly there instead then? :wacko:

:kiss:

[Gitta Rensolo]

awww well I don't care what you do with Rolly as long as he doesn't think Rolly is better than me...mwhaaa...:wacky:

[Mojo Pin]

I'm gonna post as her and tell him i'm looking for a threesum cos ykw cant satisfies me mwhahahaha :wacky:

[Gitta Rensolo]

whoaaaa......I think he'd be really damn scared of you (Rolly)...haha and maybe he would tell me "bah there a pervy on facebook who asked me for a threesum with some ykw..." and I should act shocked then....I hope I can do that..:uhoh:

[Mojo Pin]

Mwhahahaha i'll make sure to mention the hairy holes :lol:

[Gitta Rensolo]

whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa....:sick:

[LiquidSky]

YES....good idea...erm I'll give you his facebook profile..:nice:

Cool! what the link?:D:P

[Gitta Rensolo]

Noooooooooo.....I didn't know what to say back then (I don't know if this sentence is right but I'm drunk..).....:hat:

[Petit Prince]

thats no excuse for not showing the picture :P

nah seriously i dont think its hard to find out whether a guy is attracted to you but its hard to tell if he's actually interested in a (serious) relationship.

[LiquidSky]

thats no excuse for not showing the picture :P

nah seriously i dont think its hard to find out whether a guy is attracted to you but its hard to tell if he's actually interested in a (serious) relationship.

I agree with you Sally

[coldplaying]

I mean that he likes me...yes.---

- if he writes me that he hopes I have a nice weekend?
- if he says "wonderful" when I say I'll go now,too?
- if he says after the wonderful "So I'll go with you o the bus station" although he doesn't have to?
- if he says "Hey I found a cd for you, the music sounds similar to the Doors.....I'll give to you on thursday?
- if he asks "How was your day?"
- if he is sitting next to me in a lecture?



whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa....I just want to know if he likes me...:bigcry:

absolutely yes.

[Gitta Rensolo]

wellll....yes I think he likes me...don't know if he is attracted to me or something like that, but he likes me...we walked home together I think almost every day last week...I think we were sitting next to each other in every lecture...awwwwww....and yesterday we spent our break between two lectures together...awwwwwww...:blush:

and now I'm sad that I couldn't really catch him at the party yesterday...:bigcry:



:wacky:

[Lore]

wellll....yes I think he likes me...don't know if he is attracted to me or something like that, but he likes me...we walked home together I think almost every day last week...I think we were sitting next to each other in every lecture...awwwwww....and yesterday we spent our break between two lectures together...awwwwwww...:blush:

and now I'm sad that I couldn't really catch him at the party yesterday...:bigcry:



:wacky:

awww that sounds so great!!!!

well... I guess there will be lots of more parties :wink3:

[Ms Magpie]

invite him to go to a party with you!!!!

[huntjd]

yeah do that!

maybe he is like me. i think because i've been rejected in the past i'm really nervous to tell a girl i like her. maybe he is the same.

but i know as a guy we do give off deliberate signals to girls that we like them. from what i've read, he does.

:):):):):)

[Gitta Rensolo]

wha no I'm too shy for that...:uhoh:

Oh btw on tuesday I said to me that he usually has older friends (I'm 3 years younger than him...), but I'm different and an exception...mwha...:smug:

[huntjd]

yeah he wants you. you two should get drunk together and go for there. alcohol is the best social lubricant ever invented...

[Gitta Rensolo]

hahah yeah that's true....ah damn it I'm so torn...I don't kno what to think...I hate that feeling..:bigcry:

[Black Rose]

yeah he wants you. you two should get drunk together and go for there. alcohol is the best social lubricant ever invented...

Also alcohol is the best way to lose control of your senses and do stuff you will live to regret.

[Ms Magpie]

In vino veritas.

[Darlene_Ihnfsa]

lol in vino veritas, we used it on your work. :p in winetourism.

aww that's so nice Julia.. but if you don't do something, and he does something too, you can be in that situation for years... (i tell you that by own experience), although i agree with what David has said, may be in that case some drink helps... invite him to go to an activity/event that you both like... :idea2:

[Black Rose]

You can have fun without having to hit alcohol, just have non-alcoholic drinks, therefore you get the best of both worlds.

Apart from in my experience NADs cost a lot more than normal drinks

[*andrea*]

sometimes instinct tells you :kiss:

[LiquidSky]

If you could see my screen but I don't know how to screen cap on a mac. I'm gonna tell you what it says......


A Friend Likes You
Does one of your friends secretly like you? Find out now. yoursecretmessage.org ha! You should click to see if it works, Julia! :thinking:

I want to have a crush too! :(

[bruttiиo]

I mean that he likes me...yes.---

- if he writes me that he hopes I have a nice weekend?
- if he says "wonderful" when I say I'll go now,too?
- if he says after the wonderful "So I'll go with you o the bus station" although he doesn't have to?
- if he says "Hey I found a cd for you, the music sounds similar to the Doors.....I'll give to you on thursday?
- if he asks "How was your day?"
- if he is sitting next to me in a lecture?



whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa....I just want to know if he likes me...:bigcry:

crap. I had a guy do the same stuff to me :uhoh2: how do I tell him?

[FlyingV]

rofl try to make them jelous... tell them u like some 1 else and if they star5t actin woosty (strange) u no they like u in my experience it worx verry well lol and can get ppl out the freind zone lol...

btw i no this is terrible advice..... something as delicate as love should be neither toyed with nor kept secret lol :) breaking these rules only leads u to despair

[Gitta Rensolo]

sometimes instinct tells you :kiss:

weeeellllll....instinct told me several times last week that he does....:uhoh:

[Gitta Rensolo]

Oh and now that I know him better I think I really have a crush on somebody...:bigcry:


awwww and he said we should go to a cocktailbar and drink cocktails hehe....:wacky:

[Darlene_Ihnfsa]

a crush on somebody? who? someone that is not him? :uhoh:

[Gitta Rensolo]

hahaha sorry my sentence was a bit confusing there....I was talking about him of course...;)

[Darlene_Ihnfsa]

so it is going well i see... congrats. :D

will you go to the cocktailbar?
don't drink too much and enjoy it :)

[Ms Magpie]

Oh and now that I know him better I think I really have a crush on somebody...:bigcry:


awwww and he said we should go to a cocktailbar and drink cocktails hehe....:wacky:
:dance: :nice:

[TimeIsOnYourSide]

personally if you are wondering if someone likes you
just freaking walk up to them and kiss them on the lips and see how they respond


HA

[TimeIsOnYourSide]

perhaps thats not the best way :rolleyes3:

[Gitta Rensolo]

Do you know this feeling of freaking jealousy...that you could start crying although there is not really a reason....that you want to have somethig but you don't know how to get it....whaaaa life is not nice to me..:bigcry:



sorry...:wacky:

[Gitta Rensolo]

yes yes yes he likes me...I don't know how much and in how far...but he does that's for sure...and he seems to like spending some time together with me...:dance:

[bruttiиo]

yes yes yes he likes me...I don't know how much and in how far...but he does that's for sure...and he seems to like spending some time together with me...:dance:

so what did you do?????????

you went out with the boy?
was it good?
does he smell bad?
did he give you hints? :mad: :builder2: :dead: :artist: :cowboy: :indianchief: :lipsrsealed2: :bobby:

[Gitta Rensolo]

so what did you do?????????

you went out with the boy?
was it good?
does he smell bad?
did he give you hints? :mad: :builder2: :dead: :artist: :cowboy: :indianchief: :lipsrsealed2: :bobby:

haha well.....one thing was on wednesday...hehe it was so cute...we were sitting next to each other in our latin lesson and suddenly he put his head on my shoulder and said he was so tired and cuddled my shoulder like a baby cat awwwwwwww....haha..:blush:

well and yesterday we had a lecture and he was sitting next to me...so suddenly he asked me "What will you do between this lecture and the next one?" (there are two hours in between)...I said:"Hmm I'll go home I guess...."....after a break he said "Oh I think I'll go and copy my homework for musicology"...I said:"Ohhh uuuhm....well I think I'll go with you......"...so I went with him...after that he said he wants to buy some things for uni in one certain shop...fortunately my notpad was full so I said "ahhh they also have notepads"....after a break he said: "Hmmmm you could go with me and buy a new one..."...hahaha I exactly understood what he said but asked:"What?"...he said:"Ah uhm nothing....".....after I asked a second time he said it again and then I went with him to buy some things...sooo there was still some time left...and he asked:"What will you do now?Will you go home?"...I looked at my watch and said:"Uhhhm no it's too late now...the next lecture will be in one hour!"....so that was finally the point when he said:"Ok so we will go out for a coffee meanwhile"...well yeah and that is what we did...and we had some nice conversation...

welll....when I think about this now...I realise that he obviously wanted me to go with him but he didn't dare to ask me directly...only through hints...wow I always do the same thing....erm if anyone has read this...am I wrong?

[zeoir]

That's so romantic Julia :blush:
Awwww, that head+shoulder thing is just awww :nice:

I really hope it'll work out for you!! Sounds really promising so far!

[burningmonk]

Sounds very promising so far, Jules. :) Keep us updated, eh?

[Gitta Rensolo]

heheh for sure I'll do that....;)

:blush:

[Lore]

yeahhhh it's so romantic :heart: :blush:




good luck Jules.. you deserve someone really special :blush:

[Gitta Rensolo]

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww....:blush:

[LiquidSky]

I think you tell him you like him secretly hahaha as a joke to see his reaction... 'cause maybe he just likes you a friend and wants to hang out with you that doesn't mean he wants to be your bf. You can tell if he all of a sudden grabs your hand :D because leaning in on your shoulder doesn't mean anything. Buddies lean on each other..even my cousin does that.

[Gitta Rensolo]

Yes....actually this is what I thought too....mwhaaaa..:wacky:
however....having him as a friend is great either...haha

[Gitta Rensolo]

Oh God we went out tonight ad I fell so freaking drunk...ahhhh...he's a good friend of mine I guess....he was the one who saved me tonight...if he didn't I would have stayed at home...boring time would this have been..

[bruttiиo]

haha well.....one thing was on wednesday...hehe it was so cute...we were sitting next to each other in our latin lesson and suddenly he put his head on my shoulder and said he was so tired and cuddled my shoulder like a baby cat awwwwwwww....haha..:blush:

well and yesterday we had a lecture and he was sitting next to me...so suddenly he asked me "What will you do between this lecture and the next one?" (there are two hours in between)...I said:"Hmm I'll go home I guess...."....after a break he said "Oh I think I'll go and copy my homework for musicology"...I said:"Ohhh uuuhm....well I think I'll go with you......"...so I went with him...after that he said he wants to buy some things for uni in one certain shop...fortunately my notpad was full so I said "ahhh they also have notepads"....after a break he said: "Hmmmm you could go with me and buy a new one..."...hahaha I exactly understood what he said but asked:"What?"...he said:"Ah uhm nothing....".....after I asked a second time he said it again and then I went with him to buy some things...sooo there was still some time left...and he asked:"What will you do now?Will you go home?"...I looked at my watch and said:"Uhhhm no it's too late now...the next lecture will be in one hour!"....so that was finally the point when he said:"Ok so we will go out for a coffee meanwhile"...well yeah and that is what we did...and we had some nice conversation...

welll....when I think about this now...I realise that he obviously wanted me to go with him but he didn't dare to ask me directly...only through hints...wow I always do the same thing....erm if anyone has read this...am I wrong?

oooooooooo, that is like the best story ever *insert really cute smiley*

he put his head on your shoulder. he was too shy to ask you to go out just to get a notebook O.O
wow, you have to keep us updated with what happens :P really.
I'm acting like such a girl :bigcry: but seriously :uhoh: how was your conversation? did you talk aobut random stuff or like what? :bigcry:

[bruttiиo]

Oh God we went out tonight ad I fell so freaking drunk...ahhhh...he's a good friend of mine I guess....he was the one who saved me tonight...if he didn't I would have stayed at home...boring time would this have been..

ohhhhhhhhhhh yes, there will be more :evil: more story :blush:

[Gitta Rensolo]

hahahah Eric....hmmm what did we talk about?Yes about our childhood and stupid hair styles we had back then...about which kind of trousers we like....about our sisters...about the first time being drunk...haha and all that stuff...:P

more story?Hmmm what could I tell you....yes when we walked home together from uni yesterday we were talking about what we are going to do in the evening....we wanted to go out with some friends...but then I asked my friend what we weill do tonight and she said she won't do anything because she was sick....bah that was a pity because I soo wanted to go out....so I wrote him a message saying "Damn it, I have to stay at home tonight and I was so looking forward to go out tonight, however have a nice evening" (haha of course I hoped that he will say let's go out together...).....so he wrote that he will go out for a beer with his best friend and that I could come with them if I want...he even picked me up at the bus-station because I didn't know where the pub was...so I had a nice evening with him and his best friend....yeah that's it....nice story, isn't it?:lol:

but I like to tell stories to entertain you....:nice:

[Gitta Rensolo]

he put his head on your shoulder. he was too shy to ask you to go out just to get a notebook O.O



hahahah and this really made me laugh:laugh4:

[Lore]

I'm acting like such a girl :bigcry:

sorry... I needed to quote that :P

[Lore]

awww Jules.. is so cool to read that you have such a good days there :P


ohh



good morning :kiss:

[Bright]

haha well.....one thing was on wednesday...hehe it was so cute...we were sitting next to each other in our latin lesson and suddenly he put his head on my shoulder and said he was so tired and cuddled my shoulder like a baby cat awwwwwwww....haha..:blush:

well and yesterday we had a lecture and he was sitting next to me...so suddenly he asked me "What will you do between this lecture and the next one?" (there are two hours in between)...I said:"Hmm I'll go home I guess...."....after a break he said "Oh I think I'll go and copy my homework for musicology"...I said:"Ohhh uuuhm....well I think I'll go with you......"...so I went with him...after that he said he wants to buy some things for uni in one certain shop...fortunately my notpad was full so I said "ahhh they also have notepads"....after a break he said: "Hmmmm you could go with me and buy a new one..."...hahaha I exactly understood what he said but asked:"What?"...he said:"Ah uhm nothing....".....after I asked a second time he said it again and then I went with him to buy some things...sooo there was still some time left...and he asked:"What will you do now?Will you go home?"...I looked at my watch and said:"Uhhhm no it's too late now...the next lecture will be in one hour!"....so that was finally the point when he said:"Ok so we will go out for a coffee meanwhile"...well yeah and that is what we did...and we had some nice conversation...

welll....when I think about this now...I realise that he obviously wanted me to go with him but he didn't dare to ask me directly...only through hints...wow I always do the same thing....erm if anyone has read this...am I wrong?
thiz iz reawwly cute :kiss:


romantica romantica :wacky:

anyway, fingers double crossed and I hope he'll propose zoon :heart:

[Gitta Rensolo]

:laugh4:

I love you guys...:kiss:


sorry I just had to say this....:wacky:

[Lore]

thiz iz reawwly cute :kiss:


romantica romantica :wacky:

anyway, fingers double crossed and I hope he'll propose zoon :heart:


isn't it a bit fast :uhoh:



is he proposes you... have a daugther and call her sofia loreto :wacky:

[Gitta Rensolo]

:laugh4:


I'll call her Sofiapie Loretopie cutiepie:blush:

[Lore]

ohhhhhh that name is perfect :blush:

[Gitta Rensolo]

:blush::bigcry:

(I can't believe I'm posting so much....I think I haven't posted that much in the last 3 months!)

[Lore]

:blush: how does it feel????



I can't believe I shouldn't be studying instead of posting here :D

[Gitta Rensolo]

It feels goooood...because someone is talking to me and I don't feel bored here....awwwwwwww...and you don't have to study...and I don't have to study too (ok this is just half true..:P)...but I have to tidy up....and I have to go and buy some things...because tonight we will meet at a friend's house and there we will cook something....:D

[Lore]

ohhhh how cool .. food and friends.. nothing's better :P! :dance:... will be there THE guy?

[Gitta Rensolo]

hahah no he won't be there...we always cook with our "girl's gang"(haha)...but when we went out yesterday (well the guy his best friend and me) I realised how funny it is to go out with guys...how random...but it's true...:wacky:

[Lore]

yeahhhh I like it too! most of my friends are girls.. my best friends are girls since I went to a school which was only for girls... but still boys are funnier and they talk about random funny stuff too!... and they're also more simple

[Lore]

we're posting so fast this morning :laugh3:

[Gitta Rensolo]

Exactly!

I mean it was so funny yesterday....currently you can win 43 Million € in Germany in one particular "competition" (I don't know how to call it you have to choose 6 numbers from 49 and if you chose the right numbers you'll get the money...)..and they want to take part in it...so they started to tell each other what they would do with the money....hahaha and it was so funny to just sit there and listen to this random stuff...and then they started talking about which shower liquid they use etc...haha well it was jsut funny...:wacky:


and yes we are really fast this AFTERNOON!:P

[Lore]

it's called lotery here :uhoh: I guess...

it's morning.. you people in the future:bigcry:

[Gitta Rensolo]

:laugh4:

hahahahahaha I didn't know you know the word lotery and that it does exist...so yes it's lotery...we call it Lotterie in german...:wacky:

ok so I accept that it is morning....whoooohooooo now ther eis "hey ya" by outkast on the radio....a feel good song....:dance:

[Lore]

:dance:

the word in spanish is Lotería :P

ohh that's like a happy song :dance:

[Gitta Rensolo]

Loteria?That sounds so nice....awww I want to learn spanish...:blush:

[Lore]

ohhhh I can teach you


and Renato can teach you the pervy words :wacky:

[Gitta Rensolo]

:laugh4:

that's good to know...

[zeoir]

hahah no he won't be there...we always cook with our "girl's gang"(haha)...but when we went out yesterday (well the guy his best friend and me) I realised how funny it is to go out with guys...how random...but it's true...:wacky:

that is SO true! Guys are so much more fun bah! well, the right guys. Some guys can be really booriiing :sleeping:

I met some great,funny and so random guys in italy. Gah.. that's what i call fun.

oh, and talking about which shower gel they use is just ah! You should send his friend here to talk about shower gels with me :wacko:

[bruttiиo]

hahahah Eric....hmmm what did we talk about?Yes about our childhood and stupid hair styles we had back then...about which kind of trousers we like....about our sisters...about the first time being drunk...haha and all that stuff...:P

more story?Hmmm what could I tell you....yes when we walked home together from uni yesterday we were talking about what we are going to do in the evening....we wanted to go out with some friends...but then I asked my friend what we weill do tonight and she said she won't do anything because she was sick....bah that was a pity because I soo wanted to go out....so I wrote him a message saying "Damn it, I have to stay at home tonight and I was so looking forward to go out tonight, however have a nice evening" (haha of course I hoped that he will say let's go out together...).....so he wrote that he will go out for a beer with his best friend and that I could come with them if I want...he even picked me up at the bus-station because I didn't know where the pub was...so I had a nice evening with him and his best friend....yeah that's it....nice story, isn't it?:lol:

but I like to tell stories to entertain you....:nice:

:blush: I LOVE IT
he must really like you :wink3: so when is the REAL date happening?

:laugh4:

I love you guys...:kiss:


sorry I just had to say this....:wacky:

FREAKS!!! :bigcry: :bigcry:



















































;) sorry, just had to say that :P
we :heart: you too jules :blush:









































and when you do have that real date you have to give us THOROUGH detail

[Bright]

:laugh4:


I'll call her Sofiapie Loretopie cutiepie:blush:

and she will be the best/cutest/coolest/funniest baby anyone has ever seen :smug:

BUT if you get a zon you'll him Ericpie Cutiepie :wacko:


heehee

[Bright]

:laugh4:

I love you guys...:kiss:


sorry I just had to say this....:wacky:

aww :nice: I can feel the looove in this thread :heart:

:kiss:

[Lore]

Sofiapie Loretopie Cutiepie and Ericpie Renatopie Cutiepie


perfect sister and brother's names :wacky:

[Bright]

awesome :bomb:

[Gitta Rensolo]

You guys just make me say awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww....:blush:


again





and again


















































awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww...:blush:



oh and btw Rolle...I'd love to send his friend to you but the problem is that he is the boyfriend of a friend of mine...:wacko:

[Bright]

awwwwwwwwwwwww JULES :blush:

[zeoir]

I'd only talk..

I promise :wacky:


Haha, it's alright! I'll go find another guy who likes to talk about shower gels with his best mate.. that shouldn't be too hard!

[Bright]

mohaha who are kidding, rollepoo?

you wouldn't talk at all :wink3:



but I'm sure Mr. Shoer Gel wouldn't mind :whip:

it would be ok for his girlfriend to join the "conversation", right? :wacky:

[Gitta Rensolo]

hahahah you're crazy.....I think his girlfriend would mind joining them...you can still talk with ykw about shower gels Rolle...:wacko:


oh damn it.....I'm so not sure if I have a crush on him or not...sometimes I feel it sometimes I don't...pretty weird...today is a day where I definitely feel it...argh I was sitting next to him in the lecture today and I was so damn tired and the air in the lecture room felt so cosy that I wanted to sleep....and I sooooooo wanted to do the same like he did in this latin lesson....but I didn't...:wacky:

[burningmonk]

You should've Jules. :wink3:

And if you get a son you should call him Mo, that you can say fo sho mo fo :wacky:

[Bright]

naww muppets! :wacky: your avatar is kyot, jules


ohwe you should have done it, I'm sure he'd liked it too and since he did that head-shoulder thing with you before, the chance of him running away screaming like a girl if you did the same thing I'd say is very small :wacko:

[Gitta Rensolo]

hahah....there wouldn't even have been a chance for him to run away because he was sitting at the end of the row...:wacky:


awwww fo sho mo fo....:blush:

oh btw he's a drummer too and loves the Who, Mo....:smoking:

[burningmonk]

Ah he's a Who-loving drummer, eh? I like him already :smoking:

Fo sho! :lol:

[Gitta Rensolo]

yesssssssssshhh...he is....and he owns this freaking cool the Who shirt..:smoking:

[burningmonk]

Ah, thats cool Jules! So you have things in common as well then? :)

[Gitta Rensolo]

yeah we have.....the first time I talked to him was quite funny...you know we have to study two subjects (one main and one minor subject)...we both study history and musicology...and that evening he told me that he wants to be a music journalist just like me....and that he actually wanted to study popular music and media but this special uni didn't take him.,..the same thing happened to me...hehe...oh and he playe d in a funk band...:P

[burningmonk]

Hehe, thats weird that you have all those things in common.

So he's replacing me in our funk band?! :disappointed:

[Gitta Rensolo]

haha awwwwwwwwwwwwwww...no definitely not...the Jules Rules Funk-Band will only be the real Jules Rules band with fo sho mo fo as a drummer...:smoking:

[burningmonk]

Yay!

Fo sho! :smoking:

[Gitta Rensolo]

baaaaaah screw it.....he was talking to a freind of mine today...they were talking about club where he likes to go...he said he loves going there because there are no damn kids (esp. female kids..)....and then he said that kids are all those 20 years old for him....grrrrrr...:dozey:





hmmmm.....but some weeks ago he said to me that usually he hangs out with people who are older than him and I'm an exception....:thinking:

[aarathi]

I understand when one person loves me through his behaviors. He shows some hidden behavior. When he told a matter some feelings will seen in his face.

[Famous Old Painter]

Why does love have to be so damn confusing all the time! I mean I like a girl right now who probably likes me back but maybe she's just being nice like she is to everyone.

[Gitta Rensolo]

Why does love have to be so damn confusing all the time! I mean I like a girl right now who probably likes me back but maybe she's just being nice like she is to everyone.

.

exactly

[Petit Prince]

indeed.

probably even worse though if you know someone likes you a lot but you still there is no chance you can be with him.:(


julia... i wouldnt take the thing he said about this club personally. still it obviously could cause problems if you were in a relationship because even if he saw you as an exception he might say similar things about your friends.

[Gitta Rensolo]

that's true....


ahhhhhhhh I so much hope we will go out together this weekend...because this weekend is the first weekend I'm going to stay here in Bonn and not go home,...damn I like him....before our lecture this morning we were listening to music through his headphones and it was so cool to talk about just one song with him...we did not just say "yeah I like it",...haha we were like "Did you those drums?And now do you hear this flute in the background.....what's that?A trumpet?"...ahhh I want to listen to music with him more often...hehehe-....awwww I just like him..:blush:


:wacky:

[Lore]

:blush: I'm sure you'll have fun this weekend :wink3:

[Gitta Rensolo]

I hooooooope.....because for some reason it never really worked that we went out together...:thinking:

[Lore]

but maybe this time it will work :blush:

[Gitta Rensolo]

well yeah who knows.....:bigcry:


but I must admit that many things I wished that should come true...actually came true...

[Lore]

that's awesome!!! :wacky:



now you have to explain in which way

in this way :nice: :blush:

or this one :wink3: :whip:













ok.. you can ignore my stupid comments today.. it's just that I'm a bit sleepy

[Gitta Rensolo]

:laugh4:

No, not really...:P

but well, you know the other times when I had a crush on somebody I wished just to spend some time together with those people and it never really happened...you know I'm talking about the little things in life...like spending some time together between the lectures and all that stuff...we do that quite often...tuesday, today...whenever there is time in between two lectures...so I always think at those days "hey I want to spend some time with him in between" and it always happens (just like today haha----:P)...I was looking in my purse during our first lecture today and he was not sitting right next to me but asked "Julia, what are you doing?"...I said i waslooking if I have enough money to charge my card (the card for the copies..)...and he said immediately "I'll come with you!"....and then I said that I wanted to copy my homework for musicology and then we went there together...and after that we met with some friends in a bar to drink coffee....haha he could also have gone with his best friend...


nah I'm bored so I talk too much.............:wacky:


it was just an example for what I wanted to say in the previous post...

[Lore]

:blush: :blush:


I'm so happy for you Jules.. and it's ok.. you can talk as uch as you want... I love to hear that you're so happy :D

[Gitta Rensolo]

haha awwwwwwwwww....thanks:blush:


anyways....in case of love I'm not really an optimist so I shouldn't expect too much...I guess I'll disappointed in the end anyways...

[Lore]

ohhhhh I see...

who knows what might happen in the future :wink3:

and well.. at least you are good friends :blush: and have good times together!

[Gitta Rensolo]

heheh who knows?:wacko:

and yeah you're right....and I'm happy about that...I always wanted to be friends with somebody like him....this may sound so stupid but it's true.....:wacky:

[Lore]

:wacky: it doesn't sound stupid

[Gitta Rensolo]

Good to know...:wacky:

[Lore]

:laugh3:

[burningmonk]

Doesn't sound stupid at all, Jules :wink:

[Gitta Rensolo]

Thankies Mooooo:blush:

[burningmonk]

No problem Jules :kiss: :blush:

[Gitta Rensolo]

ah screw it....what shall I do?

As I've said before this weekend is the first weekend that I'll stay in Bonn...he asked me on tuesday what I've planned for saturday...I said that one friend (the friend who is together with his best friend...) asked me to go out together...and he said that he'll go out with them too....after that he said that our ways will split on saturday night because he also wants to go to a funk party...ahhh I soo much would like to go with him but I don't know whether I should ask him or not...I don't know if he wants me to come with him...:\

[Plug_in_coldplaying]

Telling him is easily the best way!

[Petit Prince]

ah screw it....what shall I do?

As I've said before this weekend is the first weekend that I'll stay in Bonn...he asked me on tuesday what I've planned for saturday...I said that one friend (the friend who is together with his best friend...) asked me to go out together...and he said that he'll go out with them too....after that he said that our ways will split on saturday night because he also wants to go to a funk party...ahhh I soo much would like to go with him but I don't know whether I should ask him or not...I don't know if he wants me to come with him...:\

well you could just say that you're really interested in this party and he'll probably ask you if you wanna come [if he wants you to go there with him]

[Romy_arg]

Hey Guys.. i don't know if this is the right thread but i need some help
I like a guy who used to be my BF.. well he knew what i feel for him and i told him cause i thought that's the better way to keep going with a friendship..
at first he was kind of away from me.. then.. we just came back together again as friends..
that happened last year.
this year..
he started to joke about one of my friends.... then he said that he like her very much.. and all the time he asked her for a kiss..
my freind always denied it.. because she knew that i like him.
at fiorst everything was going well.. but then other people started to telling me things about mi friend and this guy.. but i didn't hear to them.. cause i believed in my friends..
well... after a couple months.. a trust source told me "they're together i saw them hanging out and making out"
and my word just fall apart.. i just didn't talk to them specially to her..
i decided to face her and asking about that.. but all the time she was like "why don't you trsut me? it's a big fat lie" and the same with himm
in this several months.. the thing got more obvious..
i mean when they were online in their msn nicknames were tittles like "my little angel you're the only one for me" and i said to myself.. "Ok.. they deny this to me.. why?"
and last week i decided to face her again.. and we started with a little chat like "how are you? how's school?"
when i asked her.. "hey how's weverything going with Nahuel (the boy)"
of course she realised that i knew everything.. and she told me "nothing we're just hanging out.." i was like "yeah b*tch.. i already know that!" but i behaved myself and answered.."ohh but.. are you officials boyfriend-girlfriend?"
"No.. we are not.. cause if I'll do that.. when i go out on Saturday night.. i won't be able to make out with any guy from the disco"
i was like :stunned:
SL*T! he loves you and you do that to him..?
then i kept her asking that kind of stuff and saying. "yes i knew everything but i was waiting for you to tell me that you really like him"
"oohh you're right I'm a bad person"
unfortunately the words "I'm sorry!" never arrived
and i just told her ·i have to go bye! and i left..
Yesterday i was walking downtown and she was with her brother, who is a really friend of mine.
i said "Oh!Hi! what's up.. what are you doing..? *turn my head and look at her* ohh you are here, hi!"
and talked with his brother a while and they had to leave so i said to her brother "ohh well see you we have to go out one of these nights ok?!.. oh. you.. bye.."
and i turned around and left..
i felt very well but when i came home.. i was checking some old messages in my phone and i found one that she wrote me once that said"don't worry I'll never betray you with a guy.. you worth more than that! and i love you very much! =) "
I felt:
+anger
+sadness
+like a wanteed to punch something

Well the point is (sorry for the long post).some people tell me that i have to forgive her and let it go.. cause he's just a guy..
Others tell me that i don't have to forgive her cause she betray my trust and she hurt me a lot
Should I forgive her..?
or not?
`PLEASE HELP!

[Ms Magpie]

Romy, something like that happened to me, except that it wasn't as bad as your situation - well at least i see it that way.

i guess it'd be the best to be polite to her, and interact wiht her only as much as necessary - why making furhter convo or something if she hurt you?

i think i know how you're feeling - i felt like i was the last dirt on the floor. i ignored that "friend of mine" for some time, since i didnt feel well in her company, and i wanted to remove myself from her and others involved for a while. things got better now, but we aren't friends anymore. we talk, but not like we used to.

i don't advise you to show her you're hurt - rather show that you're strong, after all you've done nothing wrong to her and him. she should feel guilty... :\

[Romy_arg]

i know but sometimes i feel like garbage!
because i start to think "They did me that cause I was very selfish and i thought just in myself.."
but then i stop and and tell myself "nonmononono you're wrong... she never told yoo how she felt about him"
so i won't fell guilty.. for any of themm
I see this like a some kind of choice..
it was having a friendship with me maybe forever (cause we live closer), or have "somtething" (not even a realtionship cause she doesn't want anything serious with him) with him for a while
Well she chose himm.. she chose having a good time just for a while..
ok I'l respect her..

well if i have to be honest..
i hope that he would fall SO IN LOVE WITH HER.. and then she just forget him.. just like that..
Ohh! if that happens I'll enjoy it so much..!
call me a "mean girl"
but he deserves a little of suffer in this.. ;)

Anyway thanks for the advice :)

[Gitta Rensolo]

whaaaaa...it was like i wanted it to be.....I am drunj....we went to club only me and him and we danced....then we went home togehter...he asked me if I want to sleep on his couch because he was scared that I wouldn't get home savely (because I live a bit farer away than him....and awwwwwwww:blush:


ok it's 6am I should go to bed now..

[Lore]

awww how cute :blush:

[anna111]

heyyy it's Lore! aww I was just going to bed...

goodnight everyone!!

ps. julia that's so cute!!!

[Lore]

goodnight! :kiss:

[Mojo Pin]

Bah, i would've invited you to my bed instead rawwwwwr!:wink3:

But then again , you wouldn't be safe there :charming:

Ps, dont mind me, i'm tipsy :drunk:

[Lore]

you pervy Ren!

[Romy_arg]

OHH THAT'S SOO CUTEE AND SWEET!
i remember when me and my "friend" were watching a movie..
he was laying in the same bed that i was..
and he Fell asleep..
Awwww....
my darling...
:cry:
i miss him :(

[Mojo Pin]

I forgot to mention that she would sleep in my bed and i'd go to the couch :wacko:

You people are gonna go to hell for what your dirty mind is thinking, shame on you! :wacky:

[Romy_arg]

I forgot to mention that she would sleep in my bed and i'd go to the couch :wacko:

You people are gonna go to hell for what your dirty mind is thinking, shame on you! :wacky:
:laugh4: :laugh4:

[Gitta Rensolo]

Bah, i would've invited you to my bed instead rawwwwwr!:wink3:

But then again , you wouldn't be safe there :charming:

Ps, dont mind me, i'm tipsy :drunk:

mwhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa...Renny:laugh4:

[Plug_in_coldplaying]

I'd like to ask something,but I don't dare myself

[Gitta Rensolo]

ALL I WANT FOR CHRISTMAS IS HIM!:bigcry:


mwhaaaa....:wacky:

[Lore]

I saw santa today :wacky: if I see Santa again I'll tell him what you want!

[Gitta Rensolo]

Yayyyy.....do that:dance:

I hope you see him soon...:wacky:

[Lore]

maybe I'll see him tomorrow if I go to do some christmas shopping :wacky:

then I'll tell him

"Santaaaaa I've got a friend called Julia from Germany .. pleaseee give her the cute boy for christmas"

[Gitta Rensolo]

YES...that'd be perfect....and if it becomes real then I start to believe in santa!

[Lore]

ohhh I hope so!!!

[Mojo Pin]

AND if you dont get that cute guy for xmas, well you can always get a ykw rubber doll like the one rolly got :dance:

:wacky:

[Gitta Rensolo]

ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww........:sick:


Now I hope even mor ethat I get what I want..:uhoh:

[Lore]

:sick:


hey Renato



bye Renato :P


finally I'm watching the travis singles dvd :dance:

[Mojo Pin]

ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww........:sick:


Now I hope even mor ethat I get what I want..:uhoh:
Well, if everything fails, i'll make sure to send mc half naked and shaking his xmas tree balls to you :wacko:

:sick:


hey Renato



bye Renato :P


finally I'm watching the travis singles dvd :dance:

hahaha hallo Lore :kiss:
Whoa! awesome! have you checked the hidden vids? the one with andy riding neil is so friggin' hilarious :lol:

[Gitta Rensolo]

christmas tree balls????????:o



:sick:

[Gitta Rensolo]

ooooookkkkk......he's just invited me to come to his house....ahhhh...shall I go?It's 11.15pm and tomorrow we have to go to uni....

[Lore]

go :P

[Gitta Rensolo]

well.....I think I'll do that.....actually we wanted to go out tonight with some friends, but for some reason that didn't work....so he invited me....aaaaaaaaaahhh

[Lore]

have fun :blush:

[Gitta Rensolo]

It's not sure whether I'll go or not....first he has to write me back...

[burningmonk]

Only go if you're really sure Jules.

Completely unrelated question, but do you like Pink Floyd?

[Gitta Rensolo]

I am sure!The problem is just that I wrote him a message saying "Do you have beer?" and he did not reply yet....:thinking:

yeah I like Pink Floyd, because of "Dark side of the moon" especially....and wish you were here...

[Gitta Rensolo]

YES!I'll go now.....we'll listen to music...and drink beer

[Gitta Rensolo]

whaaaaaaaa....I'm back:wacky:

I drank 1 litre of beer------and we listened to music and talked mostly about music and read music magazines,,,,and his living room is soooo cosy although a bit messy haha.....BUT it was exactly like I always imagined my life as a student....sitting on a cosy sofa, listening to good music, talking to someone who is really cool and smoking (yes smoking is a part of it for me...dunno wh...but i always imagined it like that....)....aaaaaahhhh whenever I thought of a good life in the past I imagined it like that....:blush:

[Lore]

:blush: awesome!

[Gitta Rensolo]

Oh erm I didn't smoke (I jsut read my last post ahaha and it sounds as if I smoked...:wacky:=


goodnight people and Lore:kiss:

[Lore]

goodnight hun :kiss:!

[MrLick]

Well he's a dude, so he either likes you or wants to fuck you or both.

[Gitta Rensolo]

ooooooook I think I really have a crush on him, because I can't tell you how much I've missed him during these 2 weeks of holidays....:wacky:


although it's a bit weird...I want to spend muuuuch time with him but I don't get this butterfly thingy....or wait....do I?

[Ms Magpie]

^ something similar was happening to me before i started going out with my boyfriend. ;) the situation was different but i wasnt sure about those butterflies either.... :wacky:

[anna111]

Well...he sounds like a really cool guy. You'll probably start to understand your feelings about him soon. .. just give it time :nice:

[zeoir]

Whoa juliet!! i just read this thread and maan i've missed all those stories :o
you rock girl :wacko:
Hope you'll spend moooree time together after the holidays :nice:

[Gitta Rensolo]

Yesssssssssssssss.....Rolle well we want to spend more time together after the holidays...awwwww he's so cute/sweet....he asked me the other day what I did the evening before...I said that I wanted to go to the cinema alone but in the end I didn't...he said that this sounds like a typical single evening and that I should have called him, he would have taken me to a house party...aaaaand when w met at his house we made many plans to go out together this year....whohooooo...we want to go to parties and in summer we want to go to lakes and all that stuff....:blush:

soooo he says so many nice and sweet things to me but I am still confused about what he thinks about me....like, I just want to know if I'm just a random friend for him or a special person....:bigcry:

[Ms Magpie]

awww JULIA!!! *hugs* I just hope his name's not Romeo :(

AWWWW :blush: :happy: I really hope you're something special for him, you deserve someone who's at least that nice! :nice:

[Gitta Rensolo]

awwwwwwwwwww thanks Nina:blush:

No his name is not Romeo....I hope his second name isn't..:uhoh:

[Lore]

:laugh3: it'd be so cool if his name were Romeo :blush:

[Gitta Rensolo]

hahah definitely...but it most definitely isn't...:wacky:

but he should beeee my Romeo....:bigcry:


you know...even if it was obvious that he liked me I wouldn't believe it because I couldn't believe it...because I never thought a guy like him would like me in a special way....:wacky:

[Lore]

who knows.. maybe he's THE guy for you :blush:

I like love stories :heart:

[Gitta Rensolo]

haha well I'm still not sure about that....you know I got the impression he wants a really beautiful lady by his side which I am not....and uhm well that's such a stupid superficial thought because on the other hand I think that's a bunch of bullshit...but ahhhh guys confuse me soooo much.....they are always talking about beautiful ladies but in the end they only want someone who understands them and all that stuff....

you know this is random now...but I talked about this with a male friend of mine...he is also one of those guys who likes to talk about beautiful ladies you know....which makes him appear to be a bit superficial...but he most definitely isn't!He said the most important thing is honesty, trust and all that stuff....

but I think guys are just like that....or girls are the same but I don#t realise that because I am a girl myself...




arrrgggghhhh if I didn't have those damn doubts about my look I'd probably think different about all this....:dozey:


buuut don't get me wrong now...he's not a superficial person but I think he wouldn't go out with a girl like me...:confused:

[Black Rose]

How could anybody not think your beautiful Jules?

[Gitta Rensolo]

half of the things I wrote there were senseless....



damn it I hate my confused mind...:bigcry:


I'll always be the one who definitely wouldn't do the first step and the one who doesn't get signs by some guy because I think far too bad about myself...

[Lore]

you need to be more self confident... (I don't know if that's the right word but you know what I mean)... you're a great girl and I'm sure that he knows it :kiss:

[Gitta Rensolo]

How could anybody not think your beautiful Jules?

I can't even answer your question....I always thought I'm not beautiful and that I don't deserve someone because I'm not beautiful....I changed my mind a LOT through the years but there is still a little tiny bit left in my mind that bothers me...

[Gitta Rensolo]

you need to be more self confident... (I don't know if that's the right word but you know what I mean)... you're a great girl and I'm sure that he knows it :kiss:

Thanks Lore...:kiss:


you know I even got a whole bunch more self-confident....before I moved out it was different...but like I said before there is still something left that bothers me and that I don't get rid of...

[Gitta Rensolo]

ah wait, there is another thing I want to get rid of:


I think many people only see me as a big joke (not really in a negative way...)...you know I'm someone to joke with and you can make many jokes about me and laugh about me and I'm not angry about this..(because I know those people like me and don't mean it serious....)....and well he is one of those special persons where I get the impression that he takes me seriously...not someone who always jokes about me and laughs about me and all that stuff.....I got the impression that he understands me....and HA I felt SO good when he told me (I said that before in this thread...) that I act more adult than other 20 years old women and that he likes that....and that he even finds a friend of mine more strenuous than me ( a friend who likes to laugh about me....)and she is 22....yes two years are not much but uhm well....but what I want to say is that I think he gets how I really am....that I am not only this funny person you can joke with...


SO:

I THINK GUYS ARE MORE COMPLICATED THAN WOMEN!

(or I am....mwha....)

:wacky:

[anna111]

I think guys and women just speak totally different languages and sometimes in relationships it gets hard to understand each other ... I'm not very experienced in relationships, the two I've had have been pretty stupid (well actually the second one was good in the beginning but that's a whole different story) but anyway, I think you should probably just take it slow and be yourself with him. and don't be so hard on yourself !!!! you're beautiful inside and out.

[bruttiиo]

you need to give him a lie detector test :mellow:

[Mojo Pin]

Awww julia, you're so very beautiful in my books so chin up girl :kiss:



And if things dont work out with that guy, you know where to find me raaawr! :wink3:

[Gitta Rensolo]

Thanks Anna you are so right, I know I shouldn't be that hard to myself...I can't tell you how many people have told me in the past month what a great person I am...and some male friends told me that they just can't understand it that I haven't had a boyfriend yet...:bigcry:



Oooh Renny....let me guess where I can find you?Backstage

haah there is a random thing that comes to my mind now...some minutes ago I was packing my suitcase to go back to Bonn tomorrow...my mum said that it looks as if I wanted to go to another country and my sister said "haha yeah to a Peru or something like that!"...erm yes..:wacky:

[bruttiиo]

aw :blush: you know what another great place to go would be? :wacky:

[Gitta Rensolo]

yes yes I know I know....but can't remembe rit correctly...:wacko:

[LiquidSky]

so what happened? Is he your boyfriend now or is it still with confusion?

[Bright]

^yeah I wonder too :surpried:



haah there is a random thing that comes to my mind now...some minutes ago I was packing my suitcase to go back to Bonn tomorrow...my mum said that it looks as if I wanted to go to another country and my sister said "haha yeah to a Peru or something like that!"...erm yes..:wacky:

haha why Peru?

[LiquidSky]

Peru? I want to go to Italy :D or wait wait wait.... ITALY! :wideeyed:

[bruttiиo]

yes yes I know I know....but can't remembe rit correctly...:wacko:

:wacky: here:

http://pics2.city-data.com/city/maps/fr571.png

[Bright]

no, here actually :wacko: :

http://img158.imageshack.us/img158/3569/bbbbbbtn4.jpg (http://imageshack.us)

[Lore]

if you go to Perú


you can take a plane and come to Chile :wink3:

[bruttiиo]

no, here actually :wacko: :

http://img158.imageshack.us/img158/3569/bbbbbbtn4.jpg (http://imageshack.us)

mine is closer to germany :wacky:

[Bright]

mine is where I live :wacko:

[Gitta Rensolo]

so what happened? Is he your boyfriend now or is it still with confusion?

Noooo haha how lucky I'd be if he was my boyfriend...he's my friend:nice:


but screw it...this morning I so wished he was...we had to go to a museum at 8am with one of our courses...so first we met at the train station to go there together...so when we arrived there there was nobody of our course because we were quite early...so there were some sofas in the hall of the museum...we were sitting there he gave me one of his headphones and then we were just sitting there listening to Arcade Fire first and then some electronic stuff....we both closed our eyes relaxed because we were so tired....ah damn it would have been so nice if he was my boyfriend...I could have laid my head on his shoulder and all that stuff.....awwwwwwwww....aaaand he made me realise how nice it is just to listen to music with someone else and not alone...wow listening to music together can be so great...I never did that before because my friends don't listen to the same music like me...they always say I should turn it off....:blush:

mwha I'll take a plane to Sweden, Chile, Peru and America and then we can have a party together....seriously I think if the 5 of us had a party together it would be a damn funny night...:dance:

[Bright]

oh that sounds cosy, jules. :nice:
I really don't know why, but somehow I got a picture in my head where you two sit in this cosy sofa with lots of pillows and the sofa is in the center of a big square (or market, I dunno which word's right) and there are all these stressed people running/walking around you and Mr R, but you two are just sitting there happy and relaxed listening to music and the sun is shining on you. I don't know if you know what I mean, but in this movie (don't remeber the name) the world is stressed and moving fast but for the the main charactar, the time stands still. That's how I saw you and Mr R haha and the picture in my head breaths loooove :blush :

very random :wacko:


haha yeah I agree :lol: I think our party would the funniest party ever lol we would not be able to walk straight the day after because we had been laughing so hard muhaha we would have pillow wars and food wars and eric would go crazy because there would be only girls except for him :wacky:

[Gitta Rensolo]

oh that sounds cosy, jules. :nice:
I really don't know why, but somehow I got a picture in my head where you two sit in this cosy sofa with lots of pillows and the sofa is in the center of a big square (or market, I dunno which word's right) and there are all these stressed people running/walking around you and Mr R, but you two are just sitting there happy and relaxed listening to music and the sun is shining on you. I don't know if you know what I mean, but in this movie (don't remeber the name) the world is stressed and moving fast but for the the main charactar, the time stands still. That's how I saw you and Mr R haha and the picture in my head breaths loooove :blush :

very random :wacko:


haha yeah I agree :lol: I think our party would the funniest party ever lol we would not be able to walk straight the day after because we had been laughing so hard muhaha we would have pillow wars and food wars and eric would go crazy because there would be only girls except for him :wacky:

OMG Sofia.....what you've described there almost brought tears to my eyes...because somehow it felt like that (ok there were not many stressed people and the sofa was not in the middle of the hall...but anyways...)...it felt so good....I mean I like the fact that he just gave me his headphone and he knew that I'd like it....we can just sit there without saying something and just listen to music....that's the best thing...I'm not somebody who always wants to talk...the thing is that he knows that if he listens to music when he is with me that it isn't rude then...because I do the same...fact: we are both listening to music all day long haha....and we don't complain if we are together that the other one is listening to music...I don't know many people who are like that....this is why I love to be with him...I think he is like me a lot...erm ok I talk too much....:wacky:

but awwwww this feeling haha....:blush:



ok erm the party....hahah food wars definitely...and you are so right...it would be such a funny party...but erm you said eric would be the only guy....you are wrong there dear Sofia...What about Ren?:uhoh:

[Petit Prince]

Noooo haha how lucky I'd be if he was my boyfriend...he's my friend:nice:


but screw it...this morning I so wished he was...we had to go to a museum at 8am with one of our courses...so first we met at the train station to go there together...so when we arrived there there was nobody of our course because we were quite early...so there were some sofas in the hall of the museum...we were sitting there he gave me one of his headphones and then we were just sitting there listening to Arcade Fire first and then some electronic stuff....we both closed our eyes relaxed because we were so tired....ah damn it would have been so nice if he was my boyfriend...I could have laid my head on his shoulder and all that stuff.....awwwwwwwww....aaaand he made me realise how nice it is just to listen to music with someone else and not alone...wow listening to music together can be so great...I never did that before because my friends don't listen to the same music like me...they always say I should turn it off....:blush:


well he might be just as shy as you. have you ever thought of this?:\

[Grace]

there's this album by a rap duo from Berlin.
it is called "Mach Et Einfach". lol.
this is so random, Julia, but it sorta turned into my personal motto.
you're so young. you should just go for it.
i mean ... what's supposed to happen?
you could just ask him out 'cause guys usually never say no.

:wink:

you seem to have quite a few things in common... but i know you don't wanna destroy things in case you ask him out and he says no. :\
but if he does so he's the wrong one anyway.

meeeh.
those situations totally freak me out.
i never know what to think.
right, guys aren't as complicated as girls, but i always seem to interpret their signals wrong. :laugh3:

[Mojo Pin]

ok erm the party....hahah food wars definitely...and you are so right...it would be such a funny party...but erm you said eric would be the only guy....you are wrong there dear Sofia...What about Ren?:uhoh:

Yup, i have a manhood too you know :wink3: *shakes manhood*

:uhoh:

Lets throw a party! :dance:

[Lore]

I want a party too :bigcry:

[Mojo Pin]

It would be uber cool if we could actually have a party :dance:
But then again i'm not a good dancer so i'd probably be at the bar drinking and making conversation with any girl :wacky:

[Lore]

I'm not a good dancer either.. I guess we all would be drinking and listening some good music ::smoking:

[Bright]

OMG Sofia.....what you've described there almost brought tears to my eyes...because somehow it felt like that (ok there were not many stressed people and the sofa was not in the middle of the hall...but anyways...)...it felt so good....I mean I like the fact that he just gave me his headphone and he knew that I'd like it....we can just sit there without saying something and just listen to music....that's the best thing...I'm not somebody who always wants to talk...the thing is that he knows that if he listens to music when he is with me that it isn't rude then...because I do the same...fact: we are both listening to music all day long haha....and we don't complain if we are together that the other one is listening to music...I don't know many people who are like that....this is why I love to be with him...I think he is like me a lot...erm ok I talk too much....:wacky:

but awwwww this feeling haha....:blush:



ok erm the party....hahah food wars definitely...and you are so right...it would be such a funny party...but erm you said eric would be the only guy....you are wrong there dear Sofia...What about Ren?:uhoh:

awe you are a real little philosopher, jules :wacko: haha I like that :nice:


weeeeelll.... :uhoh: I didn't know you were talking about Ren becuase I don't read the posts careful enough :wacky:
good for eric then lol he would have a boyfriend :nice:

speaking of food war :wacko: I had a sugar cub war with my brother before haha it was fuuuun and when we had made peace we hade to search for sugar cubes all over the house before mum got home :wacky:

[Bright]

It would be uber cool if we could actually have a party :dance:
But then again i'm not a good dancer so i'd probably be at the bar drinking and making conversation with any girl :wacky:


I'm not a good dancer either.. I guess we all would be drinking and listening some good music ::smoking:

awww but it doesn't matter if you are good dancer, you just dance because it's fun :cheesy:


we could always do the train-dance, that always works :wideeyed:

[Gitta Rensolo]

haha I'm such a bad dancer, too!:wacky:


ooh Grace actually I don't think that he's shy....so uhmmm...:thinking:

[Mojo Pin]

Train -dance! yay! i'm all for it!*imagines doing the train dance with eric:wink3:*

[Lore]

:laugh3:

[Mojo Pin]

I hope no one invites ykw :uhoh:

[Gitta Rensolo]

We'll go to a concert on monday...:wacky:

[Mojo Pin]

Whoa! Julia you so should kiss that guy after that gig cos otherwise the crush will keep on growing and you'll explode ( of lust :o) but seriously go for it :D

[Lore]

yahh go for it :blush:

[Mojo Pin]

It worked out for Lore and ykw after all so go Julia! :P

[Gitta Rensolo]

mwha no...I've invited myself for that concert...:laugh4:

it was just so strange...he asked another friend of ours if he wants to go with him after one of our lessons...I still wonder why he didn't ask me as well because this other guy does not really listen to this music and he knows that I would go with him...so yesterday I just asked him "Will you take me with you?" and he said "Yesss, of course!"

haahah

:wacky:

in general I find it pretty strange....he never directly asks me if I want to go with him somewhere but in the end we are the ones who go somewhere and enjoy it..haah...ah and then when I say that I was bored one evening he says that I could have asked him if we want to go out together or something like that.---

either I'm just getting too deep in this stupid thing with my interpretations and all I think is bullshit...or not...I hate that

[Mojo Pin]

haha sounds like he's uber shy but better take action now cos some other girl might show up in his life and then you'll have to step aside and pretend you're cool with it and happy that he has a gf but deep inside you'll be jealous as hell :o I can tell cos i used to hang out everywhere with this girl from work and i liked her but didnt have the guts to say it so one fine day she found a guy out of the blue and i had to step back :disappointed:

[Gitta Rensolo]

well, I'm still convinced that I am wrong and the thing is that he is just nice....damn it!

[Mojo Pin]

But nice is good :D ( i sound like joel barish now haha)

[Lore]

It worked out for Lore and ykw after all so go Julia! :P


ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

[Mojo Pin]

Weren't you the cute girl with curly hair who was exchanging licks and tongue kisses with ykw in the forest then? :o

[Lore]

nooooooo I was here

[Mojo Pin]

But i heard him calling that girl" oh my queen, you're a great kisser " :wacko:

[Lore]

but wasn't meee.... it was Rollegirl

[Mojo Pin]

Maybe it was her with a wig? :o

I hope she stops lurking and says something about it now :wacky: